Rachel Hollis

What has helped me, and this has helped me every single time, I heard this from somebody and I don't even remember who it was.

I wish I could quote them.

I don't remember who told me this.

But I was really battling through, is this in my intuition?

Is this like my gut telling me that I should do this thing or I shouldn't do this thing or is this fear?

And the question is that I ask myself now is whose voice is that?

Whose voice is telling you that you should or shouldn't do it?

Is it your voice or mine?

Is it your parents' voice, is it your husband's voice, or your wife's voice, or your friend's voice, or the random people on the internet's voice that you don't even know who they are?

A lot of the times it's that for people, what they will think, and we don't even know who they are, right?

It's like, what will they think?

Or maybe it's Susie from college, right?

Or, you know, my cousin from ages ago that they were gonna think of me on the internet.

And we care so much about that.

And it's a normal human experience to care what other people think.

We want to be liked.

We want to be approved of.

We want people to say good job.

We do.

And that's OK.