Rachel Hollis

And if you're sitting here listening like, oh, that's a bad thing.

I don't want to care what people think.

We're going to.

Yeah, we all do.

But here's the thing, we don't wanna wake up, I love how you talk about, you think about death often.

I don't want to wake up on my death bed one day, my 100th birthday, and say, oh, I let all the random people on the internet or people that I didn't care about dictate my actions, and I let the fear of what they would think of me override my gut intuition of what I knew I was meant to do on this planet.

And so I ask myself, is it my voice or is it the voice of somebody else?

And when I hear my own voice in there, you know, you know your voice.

But when I hear like, oh, that's my husband Chris's voice, you know, and even though I love Chris and I care so much what he thinks, and this is for everybody with a partner out there, like I've done it before where I have made lots of decisions based on somebody that I was in a relationship with and what they would think of me.

But now I know better and I'm like, that's Chris's voice.

Chris, that was your voice telling me that I shouldn't, but my voice.

Who I will be proud of myself at the end of this night when I get in my bed and I look up at the ceiling.

I'm like, did I squeeze all the juice out of the lemon today?

Did I do it all?

Did I lay it out all in the field?

Or did I phone it in today?

As long as I listen to my voice and I stay true to who I am, I'm always okay with myself at the end of the night.

Well, so I have time on my wrist.

Yeah.

So I tattooed this on my wrist, not because I wanted to tattoo.