Rachel Shannon
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
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But just months into the relationship, in early 2019, it turned out that Zeho was actually pregnant.
Both Zeho and Shoba were shocked.
At first, the two talked about it and they both came to the mutual decision to terminate her pregnancy.
Apparently, Shoba told her that he just wasn't ready to be a father and she agreed that they weren't in the right position for a baby.
So, Shoba gave Zeho money to get an abortion and she did get the abortion, but it deeply affected her.
She really struggled with what happened and it definitely affected her mental health in a negative way.
But after that, the relationship continued to progress and things seemed to go well relative to what happened.
It even got to the point that Zeho brought Shoba to her aunt's 60th birthday.
But by all accounts, while at the party, Shoba didn't really talk to anybody, including her aunt, who they were celebrating.
He seemed to sort of brush everybody off and wasn't really interested in getting to know anyone in Zeho's family.
And we sort of know why, that he just wasn't all that interested in her in general, but...
At the time, they couldn't really figure out why Shoba was so standoffish.
Then, by October of 2019, Zeho became pregnant once again.
This was just months after her first pregnancy, so Zeho was still struggling mentally after terminating that first pregnancy.
So, Zeho didn't tell anyone about this pregnancy for quite a while.
She kept it to herself while she figured out what to do.
Around the same time, Rosette, Shoba's fiancΓ©,
her mother actually passed away from cancer she was not taking the loss very well at all so obviously shoba had to be around a lot more to support her this meant that zeiho now saw much less of shoba during this time so three months after finding herself pregnant and keeping it a secret from everybody by january of 2020 she finally decided that she needed to tell shoba
Again, she hadn't been seeing much of Shoba, so she decided to message him on WhatsApp, telling him that she needed to talk to him.
She first messaged him asking him to call because she needed something,