Rachel Shannon
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She sent that to Shoba and he responded that he was going to be someone's father soon and that he was so excited.
She then thanked Shoba saying that she appreciated his support and he said, of course, he wanted to be a part of the baby's life the best that he could.
But as I've been saying, his actions were not aligned with what he was saying about accepting that he would support Zeho.
He had been providing Zeho money for quite a while, but eventually he refused to continue helping in any way financially, pointing out to Zeho that she did not have the finances to bring a baby into the world.
so he was kind of doing whatever he could to tell her that he was supportive while sort of slighting her and showing her with his actions that he was not interested in her or the baby he made it clear like hey you don't have the money for this baby if i'm not supporting you and look what happens if i don't support you you have nothing
That's sort of what he was trying to show her with his actions.
It was clear that Zeho still had hopes about the relationship though even if Shoba did not because again, he was telling her all the right things even though he was not doing any of them.
But despite Zeho and Shoba not being on the same page about the baby and the fact that Shoba clearly didn't want it, Zeho was still so excited for her baby's arrival and so was her family.
She was actually supposed to be having a baby girl.
Everybody stepped in to help Zeho prepare for her little girl, but they also wanted to know who the father was.
And that is when Zeho told her family that Ntituko Shoba was the father of her baby.
Then, they arranged with his family to come find a time to come over so that they could be introduced to one another since they would be having this baby together and they would all be one big family.
So, he did agree to have his family come to Zeyho's home on one Sunday.
When that Sunday came, Zeyho's aunts and uncles all came over to meet this man and his family, but he told them last minute that they couldn't make it.
He said that they needed to reschedule for the following Sunday.
So they all agreed, and when that Sunday came, they postponed again.
This happened for the following four Sundays.
Finally, Zeho's family asked if they could just have Shoba's mother's number so that they could arrange something over the phone since this plan clearly wasn't working.
But even after calling Shoba's mother, it was clear that she was not interested.
She didn't want to hear about her son getting someone pregnant.