Rachel Wilson

You know, like that is chaos.

And I don't think people are supposed to have those kind of options.

No, you didn't.

You never did historically.

It's only been like 15 years.

It used to be your area where you live.

Those were the people to choose from.

And you'd find the best person for you in that.

Like I taught, I interviewed my grandma on my YouTube channel when she was 97.

And I asked her like,

When you and Aunt Thelma were when Thelma and Lois were looking for, you know, husbands in the early 40s, like what were the things you guys were looking for?

What did you think about when you were like looking for a guy?

She's like, oh, well, we you know, he had to have a good reputation.

He had to come from a nice family, you know, because you're going to you know, when you marry a guy, you marry his family.

So you got to think about that.

I wanted him to go to like the same type of church as me and believe the same things.

And he had to, you know, have good job prospects, you know, a good future prospects because, you know, you want to raise a family and those sort of things.

She did not say six foot, six pack.

or six figures none of that came up it was all like pretty wholesome and very like long term minded do you know what I mean like she's thinking of the future I don't feel like I don't even feel like I did that I feel like when I was young I was stupid and I was like he's cute and funny that's good enough for me you know

Well, it's like there's normal preferences that people have to big, tall guys, fit people, wealthy people.