Rachel Wilson

Yes.

Yeah.

I don't I don't know what we do about that.

I don't have a great answer for that.

I've tried kind of like talking like I'll go on the whatever podcast once in a while and kind of like ask girls probing questions about that.

Like.

Do you think it's possible that you could be missing it?

Like if you're 22 and you won't date a guy because he only makes 50 grand a year, it's like, yeah, well, my husband only made 40 grand a year when we met, but he makes way more than that now.

Like you used to grow together and having a family really motivates a man to like hustle and grow whatever it is that he's doing and try to be better.

But it's like if you're 22 and you're like, I won't even look at you unless you make six figures, you're missing out on a ton of great guys.

And it's like, what exactly do you want?

What are you looking for?

And they don't even know.

Well, they're kind of programmed towards hypergamy today, right?

It seems like they're programmed to go after the super successful, hyper successful people and not think, oh, I'm developing a relationship with a man and we're going to grow together.

Yeah.

And they have, this is true.

We know there's problems with men, but we talk all the time about problems with men.

And I think what we tell women is you're perfect how you are.

You are a goddess girl and you don't have to change for anybody.