Radhi Devlukia

Makes such a difference. And I think...

Makes such a difference. And I think...

you know with i've just been so used to that concept that that's what i always you know related to this friend or this relationship this person wants to spend the most amount of time with me that must mean you know that person loves me more and so i think that's something i've really changed because you can feel so much more fueled from a 15-minute interaction with someone

you know with i've just been so used to that concept that that's what i always you know related to this friend or this relationship this person wants to spend the most amount of time with me that must mean you know that person loves me more and so i think that's something i've really changed because you can feel so much more fueled from a 15-minute interaction with someone

and loved with presence than you can with, you know, two hours of someone's distracted time. And that's something I'm still working on as a person of being someone who's present. I think it's something I've really, you know, I've been up and down with it.

and loved with presence than you can with, you know, two hours of someone's distracted time. And that's something I'm still working on as a person of being someone who's present. I think it's something I've really, you know, I've been up and down with it.

There are different times where my mind can just, you know, go everywhere and do everything and not even be in the same room as everybody else that I'm in the room with. But I think it's something that I know I want to be working on and something I want to be improving on.

There are different times where my mind can just, you know, go everywhere and do everything and not even be in the same room as everybody else that I'm in the room with. But I think it's something that I know I want to be working on and something I want to be improving on.

Definitely.

Definitely.

Definitely. Especially if you don't know what you're doing in your life or if you feel like you're a bit lost helping other people. And although that's a great thing when you help other people, but the intention behind it and what you're receiving from it can make a huge difference in how you actually feel about it.

Definitely. Especially if you don't know what you're doing in your life or if you feel like you're a bit lost helping other people. And although that's a great thing when you help other people, but the intention behind it and what you're receiving from it can make a huge difference in how you actually feel about it.

So like if you're helping someone through intention of genuinely caring for them, genuinely helping them, or are you helping them because it fuels you into feeling valuable. And therefore, like for me, I remember it used to be just a way that I would throw myself into. So I didn't have to think about what I was doing in my life or how to figure out my own things. It was just, oh, this is great.

So like if you're helping someone through intention of genuinely caring for them, genuinely helping them, or are you helping them because it fuels you into feeling valuable. And therefore, like for me, I remember it used to be just a way that I would throw myself into. So I didn't have to think about what I was doing in my life or how to figure out my own things. It was just, oh, this is great.

I need to be doing this. This person needs my help. I need to like create this space for myself in their life because then I don't have to think about all the important stuff I actually need to deal with. So it was the easier option and more of a selfish option. But I think that's a value that I have changed.

I need to be doing this. This person needs my help. I need to like create this space for myself in their life because then I don't have to think about all the important stuff I actually need to deal with. So it was the easier option and more of a selfish option. But I think that's a value that I have changed.

Yeah, look at this. Look at this, man. Come on. Yeah.

Yeah, look at this. Look at this, man. Come on. Yeah.

Yeah, yeah, you told me.

Yeah, yeah, you told me.