Ramit Sethi

in gender as well.

We will often hear guys spending money at a gas station.

This is quite common.

They go every morning, they're buying snacks, drinks at a gas station.

Why'd you do that?

We can make it at home.

So they, over time, come to realize that what they are spending

Either they can easily afford it, so why are we arguing about this?

Or this is not the vision for our rich life.

And candidly, sometimes I'll just tell them, like, is Target your rich life?

And I have to say, I don't think buying a bunch of commodities can be a core part of your rich life.

In fact, I've never heard somebody say Target is my rich life.

It's just not.

Spending time with your kids...

being able to volunteer with them, buying something beautiful that you appreciate, even going out and splurging for a meal and getting an extra appetizer.

Yes, that can be part of a rich life.

A lot of people have told me that.

But buying some stuff at a random store?

Probably not.

After the break, Ramit explains his problems with a lot of personal finance content.