Ramit Sethi
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And yeah, I hear a lot of guys.
I mean, when I was living in New York and I had a lot of single friends, topic of conversation was, I'm not ready to get married.
I need to get to a certain point in my career first.
We have all these words for it.
And deep down,
there's a feeling that we're often expressing.
Maybe I'm not ready.
Maybe I'm not enough.
Maybe I need to do X, Y, Z before I do the thing that I want.
And so part of what we talk about when it comes to relationships and money is like, let's actually shine a light on that.
Let's not be shy about it.
If you want someone to pay for your dinner, fine.
That's totally fine.
Let's have that conversation.
If you want to be the sole earner in your household, okay, let's see what it would take.
And
Too often, we don't have those conversations.
We just dance around them for 50 years.
Who should pay for the first date then?
My answer is doesn't matter.