Ramit Sethi

Healthcare is expensive, especially in the US.

And so you have two people earning.

In urban cities, you have young women earning more than men in their 20s.

A lot of us are trying to figure out what does this role mean for me and for my partner and for our relationship?

That makes it tricky.

Exactly.

Yeah.

No one ever says like, you are a provider, but we learn it from a million different perspectives.

And yeah, I hear a lot of guys.

I mean, when I was living in New York and I had a lot of single friends, topic of conversation was, I'm not ready to get married.

I need to get to a certain point in my career first.

We have all these words for it.

And deep down,

there's a feeling that we're often expressing.

Maybe I'm not ready.

Maybe I'm not enough.

Maybe I need to do X, Y, Z before I do the thing that I want.

And so part of what we talk about when it comes to relationships and money is like, let's actually shine a light on that.

Let's not be shy about it.

If you want someone to pay for your dinner, fine.