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You only heard the second half of that, but I promise the point I was trying to make at that moment is just acknowledgement of the fact that that is a reality that we're faced with. And so we talked about other methods of contraception. We talked about a vasectomy and what it would look like for me to get a vasectomy. And I would look into that.

And ultimately, we talked about also using the rhythm method where Marissa would track her cycle. Um, and we would, you know, I would use a condom when I need to and, and, and vice, you know, whatever the case may be. And so this was a very nuanced conversation that we had that was really brought down into just kind of a couple minutes.

And ultimately, we talked about also using the rhythm method where Marissa would track her cycle. Um, and we would, you know, I would use a condom when I need to and, and, and vice, you know, whatever the case may be. And so this was a very nuanced conversation that we had that was really brought down into just kind of a couple minutes.

And ultimately, we talked about also using the rhythm method where Marissa would track her cycle. Um, and we would, you know, I would use a condom when I need to and, and, and vice, you know, whatever the case may be. And so this was a very nuanced conversation that we had that was really brought down into just kind of a couple minutes.

And, um, I was really just trying to be very considerate in that moment. I promise that's not the way it looks. Uh, but it's, it's, I was really trying to understand what would work best for us in a marriage. Um, I promise I'm not anti-condom or whatever the conversation is on the internet.

And, um, I was really just trying to be very considerate in that moment. I promise that's not the way it looks. Uh, but it's, it's, I was really trying to understand what would work best for us in a marriage. Um, I promise I'm not anti-condom or whatever the conversation is on the internet.

And, um, I was really just trying to be very considerate in that moment. I promise that's not the way it looks. Uh, but it's, it's, I was really trying to understand what would work best for us in a marriage. Um, I promise I'm not anti-condom or whatever the conversation is on the internet.

So my thing with the so no. So when we decided, you know, what our sort of solution was going to be, it was pretty much, yeah, mixture of pull out game and her cycle and sort of moving forward. She also agreed with me at the point that, you know, using a condom every single time in a marriage was probably not the most feasible thing or the thing that we both wanted in that situation.

So my thing with the so no. So when we decided, you know, what our sort of solution was going to be, it was pretty much, yeah, mixture of pull out game and her cycle and sort of moving forward. She also agreed with me at the point that, you know, using a condom every single time in a marriage was probably not the most feasible thing or the thing that we both wanted in that situation.

So my thing with the so no. So when we decided, you know, what our sort of solution was going to be, it was pretty much, yeah, mixture of pull out game and her cycle and sort of moving forward. She also agreed with me at the point that, you know, using a condom every single time in a marriage was probably not the most feasible thing or the thing that we both wanted in that situation.

But even with the kids, you know, that's a conversation we had in the pods about what our timeline would look like. And so even in that conversation, like the timeline had changed with her. And so that kind of caught me off guard. But I had no point. I recognize the risk that we're taking, especially, you know, playing the pullout game. I recognize the risk that we're playing there.

But even with the kids, you know, that's a conversation we had in the pods about what our timeline would look like. And so even in that conversation, like the timeline had changed with her. And so that kind of caught me off guard. But I had no point. I recognize the risk that we're taking, especially, you know, playing the pullout game. I recognize the risk that we're playing there.

But even with the kids, you know, that's a conversation we had in the pods about what our timeline would look like. And so even in that conversation, like the timeline had changed with her. And so that kind of caught me off guard. But I had no point. I recognize the risk that we're taking, especially, you know, playing the pullout game. I recognize the risk that we're playing there.

And if we were to have kids there, that's a responsibility I would take upon myself and, you know, we would handle that situation. You know, that's, that's a risk that you're playing. And I would have more than more than happy to take that responsibility if we had kids.

And if we were to have kids there, that's a responsibility I would take upon myself and, you know, we would handle that situation. You know, that's, that's a risk that you're playing. And I would have more than more than happy to take that responsibility if we had kids.

And if we were to have kids there, that's a responsibility I would take upon myself and, you know, we would handle that situation. You know, that's, that's a risk that you're playing. And I would have more than more than happy to take that responsibility if we had kids.

I mean, I think I felt like I just said the quiet part out loud. And but it's just the way it was perceived. It's it didn't look great on me. And I honestly watching it back, my jaw was on the floor because I recognize what the conversation was. And I knew immediately, like what the perception was going to be in that moment. So it was a rough watching those conversations back for sure.

I mean, I think I felt like I just said the quiet part out loud. And but it's just the way it was perceived. It's it didn't look great on me. And I honestly watching it back, my jaw was on the floor because I recognize what the conversation was. And I knew immediately, like what the perception was going to be in that moment. So it was a rough watching those conversations back for sure.

I mean, I think I felt like I just said the quiet part out loud. And but it's just the way it was perceived. It's it didn't look great on me. And I honestly watching it back, my jaw was on the floor because I recognize what the conversation was. And I knew immediately, like what the perception was going to be in that moment. So it was a rough watching those conversations back for sure.

Listen, if I was an outside viewer watching this conversation back, I'd be like, yeah, this guy's a douchebag. But immediately. So trust me, I understand.