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Listen, if I was an outside viewer watching this conversation back, I'd be like, yeah, this guy's a douchebag. But immediately. So trust me, I understand.
Listen, if I was an outside viewer watching this conversation back, I'd be like, yeah, this guy's a douchebag. But immediately. So trust me, I understand.
absolutely so so this conversation was something that had been building up over the past days weeks um i understand the perception of this is you know marissa has she's dealing with all of these health issues right um and i am simply there only concerned about my pleasure just trying to demand sex and just concerned about you know when is the next time why are we not having enough sex basically
absolutely so so this conversation was something that had been building up over the past days weeks um i understand the perception of this is you know marissa has she's dealing with all of these health issues right um and i am simply there only concerned about my pleasure just trying to demand sex and just concerned about you know when is the next time why are we not having enough sex basically
absolutely so so this conversation was something that had been building up over the past days weeks um i understand the perception of this is you know marissa has she's dealing with all of these health issues right um and i am simply there only concerned about my pleasure just trying to demand sex and just concerned about you know when is the next time why are we not having enough sex basically
The way I approached this conversation was wasn't about sex. It was about our physical intimacy and the way it played out, not just, you know, in the bedroom, but just in our day to day. There were moments where we would go out on dates and, you know, I'm I'm a very affectionate person. I like to, you know, like hug and hold hands and all of that.
The way I approached this conversation was wasn't about sex. It was about our physical intimacy and the way it played out, not just, you know, in the bedroom, but just in our day to day. There were moments where we would go out on dates and, you know, I'm I'm a very affectionate person. I like to, you know, like hug and hold hands and all of that.
The way I approached this conversation was wasn't about sex. It was about our physical intimacy and the way it played out, not just, you know, in the bedroom, but just in our day to day. There were moments where we would go out on dates and, you know, I'm I'm a very affectionate person. I like to, you know, like hug and hold hands and all of that.
And there was like a moment, for example, where I kind of put my hand on her leg just to kind of as we were riding in the Uber to a date. And she was like, like, please stop. And obviously I can respect that. You know, I know she has like ADHD and a lot of sensory stuff can be a lot for her. But there are also moments in, you know, just cuddling where she kind of brushes my arm off.
And there was like a moment, for example, where I kind of put my hand on her leg just to kind of as we were riding in the Uber to a date. And she was like, like, please stop. And obviously I can respect that. You know, I know she has like ADHD and a lot of sensory stuff can be a lot for her. But there are also moments in, you know, just cuddling where she kind of brushes my arm off.
And there was like a moment, for example, where I kind of put my hand on her leg just to kind of as we were riding in the Uber to a date. And she was like, like, please stop. And obviously I can respect that. You know, I know she has like ADHD and a lot of sensory stuff can be a lot for her. But there are also moments in, you know, just cuddling where she kind of brushes my arm off.
And so I'm starting to notice like all of these, we're not communicating in terms of like our physical affection and intimacy. And it also played out in the bedroom. Like I won't go into much into detail, but it pretty much, it felt very detached.
And so I'm starting to notice like all of these, we're not communicating in terms of like our physical affection and intimacy. And it also played out in the bedroom. Like I won't go into much into detail, but it pretty much, it felt very detached.
And so I'm starting to notice like all of these, we're not communicating in terms of like our physical affection and intimacy. And it also played out in the bedroom. Like I won't go into much into detail, but it pretty much, it felt very detached.
It felt when we had sex that, you know, once we finished, she'd get up, go to the bathroom, clean off and, you know, just kind of lay on the other side of the bed. And so I'm picking up on these things. And my concern was really, our physical intimacy, it doesn't seem to be really connecting.
It felt when we had sex that, you know, once we finished, she'd get up, go to the bathroom, clean off and, you know, just kind of lay on the other side of the bed. And so I'm picking up on these things. And my concern was really, our physical intimacy, it doesn't seem to be really connecting.
It felt when we had sex that, you know, once we finished, she'd get up, go to the bathroom, clean off and, you know, just kind of lay on the other side of the bed. And so I'm picking up on these things. And my concern was really, our physical intimacy, it doesn't seem to be really connecting.
Like it feels like there's some sort of detachment there that I was concerned about because of the way that I communicate my love. And so if there wasn't a compatibility there, then that's something that I felt that we needed to talk about and we needed to sort of figure out. Cause it's, it's something that I wanted to figure out before we got married.
Like it feels like there's some sort of detachment there that I was concerned about because of the way that I communicate my love. And so if there wasn't a compatibility there, then that's something that I felt that we needed to talk about and we needed to sort of figure out. Cause it's, it's something that I wanted to figure out before we got married.
Like it feels like there's some sort of detachment there that I was concerned about because of the way that I communicate my love. And so if there wasn't a compatibility there, then that's something that I felt that we needed to talk about and we needed to sort of figure out. Cause it's, it's something that I wanted to figure out before we got married.