Ray Dalio

It's okay, it's another one of those.

It gives you an equanimity, like a ninja.

Okay, it's another one of these coming at me, okay?

And how do I approach this?

And then you can have a conversation.

It's just reality.

How should you deal with that reality?

And if you do that, then you think in a whole different way, okay?

You just wanna get to the best way to deal with your realities.

It'd be great for you to- I call it radical transparency, but whatever it is, okay?

It's just what you're talking about this the struggle is between themselves as you go into a conversation and And you're looking at that They find so the radical is saying super hard shit really direct nice and clear.

They're not good at this Yes, say while simultaneously saying I don't know if that's true in other words if I say

that I don't think you're good at that, I'm being honest, but also, who knows whether you're good at that?

So how do we then go from, you think you're good at it, I don't think you're good at it, and how do we go through a process to find out together whether you're good at it or not?

Okay.

The best way to do it is you do it in an agreed upon way, okay?

The idea is, okay, we say, okay, Don, you're not so good at that, I don't think.

Okay, and then we go through the how would we judge can we ask other people do we go through this test or that test?

How do we find out what's true?

Because if you can find out what's true Your life will be better.