Ray Dalio

Like do you want to know what you're not good at?

If you know what you're not good at, your life's no problem because you don't even have to get good at it.

You just have to work with somebody who's good at what you're not good at, right?

So there's a path forward when you get out of your head that you got to do that.

So the only basic notion is, if we were to have a relationship is, and by the way, it's non-hierarchical.

You could say, hey, Ray, I don't think you're very good at that.

And I'm gonna be the same way.

I put it in because I needed it.

Because I'm worried that I'm gonna be wrong.

So then you come to me and you say, I don't think it's very good.

Well, how do we find out in a non-ego-constrained, objective way whether I'm good at that or not?

Yeah, absolutely.

First of all, in terms of the group,

I like to make everything transparent so everybody could watch the same thing happening with anybody so I like you would do this in front of a large group of people no no I would say taping we do a lot of that radical transparency

Because that way people see is it fair?

Is it a good process?

Right?

So I like to do that discussion but anybody can do it with anybody right and so but I would like to have that conversation if it's like if I Don't think you are good at something and I am relevant to your life or vice versa We got to work it out.

We've got to figure that out together this with your wife in all relationships.

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