Ray Dalio

Well, you'll see that they're close cousins.

You know, let's say if you're saying, is it a different one because it's a close relationship that you've had for a long time or somebody who's new?

Okay, well, you'll see those two things are close together, okay, but it's another one of those things.

and it changes your way of seeing things, okay?

It changes your perspective.

Again, I wanna repeat, because then life becomes easier because it's not all these bits and pieces, okay?

It's okay, it's another one of those.

It gives you an equanimity, like a ninja.

Okay, it's another one of these coming at me, okay?

And how do I approach this?

And then you can have a conversation.

It's just reality.

How should you deal with that reality?

And if you do that, then you think in a whole different way, okay?

You just wanna get to the best way to deal with your realities.

It'd be great for you to- I call it radical transparency, but whatever it is, okay?

It's just what you're talking about this the struggle is between themselves as you go into a conversation and And you're looking at that They find so the radical is saying super hard shit really direct nice and clear.

They're not good at this Yes, say while simultaneously saying I don't know if that's true in other words if I say

that I don't think you're good at that, I'm being honest, but also, who knows whether you're good at that?

So how do we then go from, you think you're good at it, I don't think you're good at it, and how do we go through a process to find out together whether you're good at it or not?