Ray Dalio

Because that way people see is it fair?

Is it a good process?

Right?

So I like to do that discussion but anybody can do it with anybody right and so but I would like to have that conversation if it's like if I Don't think you are good at something and I am relevant to your life or vice versa We got to work it out.

We've got to figure that out together this with your wife in all relationships.

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In one way or another, you have to find out how you're going to make decisions.

There are going to be agreements and disagreements, and you have to have the art of thoughtful disagreement.

Now, people find their domains differently.

Maybe somebody says, okay, I'll take care of these things, and you take care of that.

I don't know, some people, you know, the traditional household might say, okay, I'll take care of making the money out, and the man goes out and he makes money in the world, and then one woman says, I'll take care of the kids.

We're not there anymore.

But each role, I'm trying to say, in some way you have to find out how to do the art of thoughtful disagreement.

And it makes sense.

And then also, knowing what's good, what you're good at and what you're not good at.

It's a good thing to know what you're good at and what you're not good at, right?

They should pause and

and they should go above it, and they should say, how should we deal with each other when that happens?

In other words, what are our protocols for working ourselves through that so that we can then move beyond that to make a decision?

That could be one of the protocols.