Rebecca Jennings

Rebecca, hello. Thank you so much for joining me. Thank you so much for having me. I love nothing more than to gossip.

Rebecca, hello. Thank you so much for joining me. Thank you so much for having me. I love nothing more than to gossip.

Oh, my gosh. Recently, gossip has been making me really paranoid. Like every time I hear people gossip, like 95 percent of me is like, oh, my God. Yes. Like this is what human beings do. This is what human communication is, is what friendship is. And then the other five percent is like, well, if they're saying this about one person, like what are they saying about me?

Oh, my gosh. Recently, gossip has been making me really paranoid. Like every time I hear people gossip, like 95 percent of me is like, oh, my God. Yes. Like this is what human beings do. This is what human communication is, is what friendship is. And then the other five percent is like, well, if they're saying this about one person, like what are they saying about me?

Yeah, but it's like I feel like this is a newer thing with me. Like it just is making me really empathic. anxious and paranoid a lot. So I'm glad that we're talking about this in a safe space where gossip is being condoned and entertainment for all.

Yeah, but it's like I feel like this is a newer thing with me. Like it just is making me really empathic. anxious and paranoid a lot. So I'm glad that we're talking about this in a safe space where gossip is being condoned and entertainment for all.

Yeah. And this is because I am about to get married. I know that there are all these group chats that don't involve me about like people. And it's also I'm having a destination wedding and everyone like on TikTok all the time. I see people like if you're if you have a destination wedding, you're a shitty person. And I'm like, oh, cool. Love that. All my friends probably hate me.

Yeah. And this is because I am about to get married. I know that there are all these group chats that don't involve me about like people. And it's also I'm having a destination wedding and everyone like on TikTok all the time. I see people like if you're if you have a destination wedding, you're a shitty person. And I'm like, oh, cool. Love that. All my friends probably hate me.

But no, it's like, you know, people planning about when they're arriving and what they're doing and which is totally normal and fine. But meanwhile, it's making me like, oh, my God, everyone's so mad at me for having a wedding. And meanwhile, it's like they're doing the kindest thing in the world by like showing up for me and celebrating me.

But no, it's like, you know, people planning about when they're arriving and what they're doing and which is totally normal and fine. But meanwhile, it's making me like, oh, my God, everyone's so mad at me for having a wedding. And meanwhile, it's like they're doing the kindest thing in the world by like showing up for me and celebrating me.

And that just makes me like, oh, my God, they all secretly hate me. And so, you know, like whenever you're at a time in your life where people are constantly saying like congratulations to you, you're like, oh, and then there's there's a side chat like outside because they're like, oh, my God, she is being obnoxious again. She's being whatever. And this is completely in my head. Yeah.

And that just makes me like, oh, my God, they all secretly hate me. And so, you know, like whenever you're at a time in your life where people are constantly saying like congratulations to you, you're like, oh, and then there's there's a side chat like outside because they're like, oh, my God, she is being obnoxious again. She's being whatever. And this is completely in my head. Yeah.

And sometimes even when I haven't like I haven't expressed anything, but I'm like, but I should have or like I should have done a different thing. What would that other person have done? And this is also I was reading How Should a Person Be, which is an entire novel of this woman just thinking that the whole time. It's like, I should be more like her. No, I should be more like him.

And sometimes even when I haven't like I haven't expressed anything, but I'm like, but I should have or like I should have done a different thing. What would that other person have done? And this is also I was reading How Should a Person Be, which is an entire novel of this woman just thinking that the whole time. It's like, I should be more like her. No, I should be more like him.

No, I should be more like her. And I'm just like, yeah, I relate. Yeah. Wow.

No, I should be more like her. And I'm just like, yeah, I relate. Yeah. Wow.

I have a tendency to do that.

I have a tendency to do that.

When it can never get back to me and when it doesn't involve me and when it's like mostly like fun. Yes. Love, love, love, love.

When it can never get back to me and when it doesn't involve me and when it's like mostly like fun. Yes. Love, love, love, love.