Rei Clarke
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
So my therapist told me, because I had told her, why am I always dealt a shitty hand?
Why am I always, I mean, my wife excluded, why am I always with, or why do these people always fucking find me?
Why am I always- Why do I attract this?
What am I fucking doing so I know not to fucking do it?
And she told me, she says, listen, there was a project that happened with prisoners, okay?
They had women that had gone through trauma, abuse, rape, all of that, walk through a hallway.
They also had women that had literally lived behind the white picket fence, no problem, also walk through.
The prisoners could tell every single time.
that a woman that had trauma passed by every single time.
And when they asked them, how did you know?
They were like, I don't know.
It's something in their brain chemistry that they are still trying to figure out.
It is not that you seek them.
It is that they seek you.
No, I get it.
I mean, I was, my mom was an addict.