Remi Bader

the people that follow me or see me online think that it's just because of the way I look or have changed my appearance that now I'm giving this energy and it's I think the point is that it's so much more than that right like it's not just that like yes I do look different than when I started on social media and that and how I looked last year and I think it's I do understand why people feel it needs or should be addressed I don't think I owe anyone anything no but I do think it's it's part of me wanting to

the people that follow me or see me online think that it's just because of the way I look or have changed my appearance that now I'm giving this energy and it's I think the point is that it's so much more than that right like it's not just that like yes I do look different than when I started on social media and that and how I looked last year and I think it's I do understand why people feel it needs or should be addressed I don't think I owe anyone anything no but I do think it's it's part of me wanting to

still want to share my journey while still keeping those boundaries on me and I feel like that's why it's like I'm not just going to give people an answer like yes I did this or this because exactly what you're saying like I do feel like happy and I do feel like I'm giving I feel a different energy within me but it's not just because of the way I look like there's so much more right that happened and there's so much more like in the past year that got me to this point right

still want to share my journey while still keeping those boundaries on me and I feel like that's why it's like I'm not just going to give people an answer like yes I did this or this because exactly what you're saying like I do feel like happy and I do feel like I'm giving I feel a different energy within me but it's not just because of the way I look like there's so much more right that happened and there's so much more like in the past year that got me to this point right

still want to share my journey while still keeping those boundaries on me and I feel like that's why it's like I'm not just going to give people an answer like yes I did this or this because exactly what you're saying like I do feel like happy and I do feel like I'm giving I feel a different energy within me but it's not just because of the way I look like there's so much more right that happened and there's so much more like in the past year that got me to this point right

And I think that that people love to say, like, you change. I'm sure you've gotten that over time, too. And I think it's like I was fighting that for so long. Like, no, I haven't. Like, I'm the same Remy. And I'm like, but I also like, aren't you supposed to over time, like, change and evolve at the same time? Like, I'm like, why is that an insult? Now I'm trying to accept that.

And I think that that people love to say, like, you change. I'm sure you've gotten that over time, too. And I think it's like I was fighting that for so long. Like, no, I haven't. Like, I'm the same Remy. And I'm like, but I also like, aren't you supposed to over time, like, change and evolve at the same time? Like, I'm like, why is that an insult? Now I'm trying to accept that.

And I think that that people love to say, like, you change. I'm sure you've gotten that over time, too. And I think it's like I was fighting that for so long. Like, no, I haven't. Like, I'm the same Remy. And I'm like, but I also like, aren't you supposed to over time, like, change and evolve at the same time? Like, I'm like, why is that an insult? Now I'm trying to accept that.

I'm like, yeah, like there's parts of me that have changed.

I'm like, yeah, like there's parts of me that have changed.

I'm like, yeah, like there's parts of me that have changed.

Just say thank you.

Just say thank you.

Just say thank you.

Yes. I still feel like it's hard for me to have these boundaries, but I'm sticking to them as best as I can. I knew...

Yes. I still feel like it's hard for me to have these boundaries, but I'm sticking to them as best as I can. I knew...

Yes. I still feel like it's hard for me to have these boundaries, but I'm sticking to them as best as I can. I knew...

that me losing a very significant amount of weight was going to end up being something I should probably talk about but not something in the way that like it's been received online of like I need to I owe it to people I've let down women in society like all these things I mean you should see the messages I get on the daily

that me losing a very significant amount of weight was going to end up being something I should probably talk about but not something in the way that like it's been received online of like I need to I owe it to people I've let down women in society like all these things I mean you should see the messages I get on the daily

that me losing a very significant amount of weight was going to end up being something I should probably talk about but not something in the way that like it's been received online of like I need to I owe it to people I've let down women in society like all these things I mean you should see the messages I get on the daily