Remi Bader
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1,044 appearances
2 recordings
2 series
first heard Mar 2025
last heard 1 Dec
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I know you don't care. But I just, it's, like, I think it goes to show, like, how... the whole point of the internet. Right.
like you you said you were only on you started in 2020 yeah and I've always been an open book so it was like that never changed once I got online it wasn't a thought like oh I'm gonna start not sharing this like that's why people started wanting to follow me because they were like oh wow she's sharing like everything and that's a scary thing when you then change that right so you and I don't know the year you and I met I don't know the year maybe 2021 or two yes and yeah we met at
Yeah. Do you feel like that? I do. I do. I feel like it's taken me a while to get here. And I also think that...
the people that follow me or see me online think that it's just because of the way I look or have changed my appearance that now I'm giving this energy and it's I think the point is that it's so much more than that right like it's not just that like yes I do look different than when I started on social media and that and how I looked last year and I think it's I do understand why people feel it needs or should be addressed I don't think I owe anyone anything no but I do think it's it's part of me wanting to
still want to share my journey while still keeping those boundaries on me and I feel like that's why it's like I'm not just going to give people an answer like yes I did this or this because exactly what you're saying like I do feel like happy and I do feel like I'm giving I feel a different energy within me but it's not just because of the way I look like there's so much more right that happened and there's so much more like in the past year that got me to this point right
And I think that that people love to say, like, you change. I'm sure you've gotten that over time, too. And I think it's like I was fighting that for so long. Like, no, I haven't. Like, I'm the same Remy. And I'm like, but I also like, aren't you supposed to over time, like, change and evolve at the same time? Like, I'm like, why is that an insult? Now I'm trying to accept that.
I'm like, yeah, like there's parts of me that have changed.
Just say thank you.
Yes. I still feel like it's hard for me to have these boundaries, but I'm sticking to them as best as I can. I knew...
that me losing a very significant amount of weight was going to end up being something I should probably talk about but not something in the way that like it's been received online of like I need to I owe it to people I've let down women in society like all these things I mean you should see the messages I get on the daily
And it's like that actually makes me want to tell my story and my journey less. Right. That pisses me off. Yeah. The people and the reason that I do then feel like guilty and like I do want to talk about it is for the people that like I guess I used to be that message me and are like so desperate for me. Like, I just, you seem happier. Like, I would love to figure out a way to be happy, too.
And they're basing that just on my body. And there's obviously more to that. But, like, I used to actually message people. I don't remember who or when, but before I had a following of, like, when I would see people lose weight or just going through any sort of life journey and look happier. And I would be like, I need help. Like, I remember being that.
right so those are the people that then I'm just like I love to help people by just I'm not saying I'm I have all the answers because I literally don't but by just sharing my story and that's what I miss and feel like I lost that connection a little bit with my followers but I needed to do it for me like I needed to give myself the whole past year to heal and
like figure out what even just happened.
Because there's just like, I feel like people just want like an answer from me and that's not what I'm giving.
I agree. And I think that I always did it a different way, which I don't regret those things. Like even just like going through a breakup online and bringing my followers through that. Like I needed that because I actually needed their support and never went through something like that.
Yeah.
Nope.
But this situation, I stuck to what I actually feel like I don't regret that. And I don't feel like I owed anyone anything. I think it's more just at this point. I can't like live my life and post because I am someone that just posts on social. Like I started by posting on social media.
I do do other things, but like if I post any video, it's just about at this point, like, well, are you going to tell us how you lost the weight? And are you going to tell us, give us answers? You're lying. You're not sharing anything. And like, it's kind of at this point eating me alive and it's not, and I had to really think about it. I just want it to be on my terms when I was ready.
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