Renee

Hi, Dr. John. Thank you for taking my call.

So my question is, how can I move on from my ex-husband's affair and focus on raising my child?

So my question is, how can I move on from my ex-husband's affair and focus on raising my child?

So my question is, how can I move on from my ex-husband's affair and focus on raising my child?

So I kind of wrote it all down, so I'll say it really quick. Yeah, read it. I wrote, my ex and I met in 2015 through work. We dated, and in 2021, we bought our house and got married. In May of 2022, I found out I was pregnant. Around the same time, I also learned he was engaging in an affair with a girl from work who is 10 years younger than him.

So I kind of wrote it all down, so I'll say it really quick. Yeah, read it. I wrote, my ex and I met in 2015 through work. We dated, and in 2021, we bought our house and got married. In May of 2022, I found out I was pregnant. Around the same time, I also learned he was engaging in an affair with a girl from work who is 10 years younger than him.

So I kind of wrote it all down, so I'll say it really quick. Yeah, read it. I wrote, my ex and I met in 2015 through work. We dated, and in 2021, we bought our house and got married. In May of 2022, I found out I was pregnant. Around the same time, I also learned he was engaging in an affair with a girl from work who is 10 years younger than him.

Over the duration of my pregnancy, he turned into someone I didn't recognize. He was very abusive and began doing drugs and drinking heavily with this girl. Our son was born in February of 2023, and he was not super present. So I was on maternity leave, and I decided to go visit my family over here in Seattle and get some support from them. And at that time, he moved her into our family home.

Over the duration of my pregnancy, he turned into someone I didn't recognize. He was very abusive and began doing drugs and drinking heavily with this girl. Our son was born in February of 2023, and he was not super present. So I was on maternity leave, and I decided to go visit my family over here in Seattle and get some support from them. And at that time, he moved her into our family home.

Over the duration of my pregnancy, he turned into someone I didn't recognize. He was very abusive and began doing drugs and drinking heavily with this girl. Our son was born in February of 2023, and he was not super present. So I was on maternity leave, and I decided to go visit my family over here in Seattle and get some support from them. And at that time, he moved her into our family home.

And so I could not go back home.

And so I could not go back home.

And so I could not go back home.

So their child was born in January of 2024. Okay. And I actually just recently found out she's pregnant again. Are you divorced officially? Yes, our divorce is finalized in December. Do you have full custody?

So their child was born in January of 2024. Okay. And I actually just recently found out she's pregnant again. Are you divorced officially? Yes, our divorce is finalized in December. Do you have full custody?

So their child was born in January of 2024. Okay. And I actually just recently found out she's pregnant again. Are you divorced officially? Yes, our divorce is finalized in December. Do you have full custody?

Yes, yeah. It's in our parenting plan that he has to get some help before he can be involved in our son's life.

Yes, yeah. It's in our parenting plan that he has to get some help before he can be involved in our son's life.

Yes, yeah. It's in our parenting plan that he has to get some help before he can be involved in our son's life.

Okay.