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Reuben Williams

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The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

Nah.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

Geez, Rana's good.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

No.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

So yeah, like on the week after the assault, so it was like Monday, go to the police station on the Friday, make the assault.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

In between that, I'd been given two weeks off work.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

And after a couple of days, my friends were like, hey Ruben, we noticed you're not at work.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

What's going on?

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

So I round up my group of friends at work.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

There's about 10 people and you come to this cafe and I'm like, I've got something to tell you.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

And when they see me, they're like, oh,

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

have you got a new job?

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

Are you leaving?

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

And they're like all excited to hear my news.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

And I sat them down.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

I said, after the party on Friday, I was sexually assaulted.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

And, um, and my friend Chris, he was like the head of strategy at the time.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

The first thing he said was, what can we do to help?

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

And that really set the tone for what I would expect people to, or how I would expect them to respond to me when I was disclosing this sort of information.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

So I told my friends very quickly, but I told my family very slow.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

And the reason for that was because in the year of the assault, the assault was really just like the crown jewel in the worst 18 months of my life.