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Reuben Williams

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955 total appearances

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The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

And I said to him, you won't see me for a very long time while you hold the beliefs that you hold.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

Wow.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

I said to him, don't come to my birthday.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

Don't come to Christmas.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

Don't come to the court case.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

If it takes 20 years, I'll see you in 20 years.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

And I said very explicitly to him, I was like, the thing that I'm most upset about is less about the George Pell stuff, but more about the fact that when you dismiss the believability of victims, you dismiss your own son.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

Like he made me feel invalid and invisible that night.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

And look, my dad is not a bad man.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

He's a very proud, stubborn, faithful man who grew up in a time that never taught him how to say, I don't know.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

but he loves his son and and that was enough for him to change not not quickly and not overnight not without any sort of hard work but he changed and that meant that by the time the uh the verdict for the magistrate's court trial came around when the verdict was announced he was the first person to to call me and he was ugly crying through the phone and just said i'm so proud of you

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

So, yeah, we're still in touch and I'm back in the family chat.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

No.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

No.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

I was obviously very upset, but...

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

like the truth is a truth and it is so black and white in, in my mind.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

Yeah.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

And, um, and I was always determined to, to go through with it, going back to the, you know, the story of the woman and what might happen if I didn't go through with it.

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

So, um,

The Imperfects
Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

There are certainly times where you have doubts, but there was never a point where I thought I'm going to back out of this.