Rich Pink

And in an argument situation,

I would, I'd need to really think and understand the situation.

I can't react emotionally because I don't, I'm good at admitting when I'm wrong, right?

And saying, sorry, but I need to fully like get why I'm wrong, like what I did.

And then, and then I'll come and apologise.

But that's you, that's why.

Is that what you had?

I'm sure some people could potentially use it as an act of defiance if you don't then go back to that conversation.

You can't be like, I'm overwhelmed, I don't want to talk about this and never talk about it again.

Like I need to like calm my nerves because that is avoidant, isn't it?

Yeah.

I mean,

I don't know any other way to communicate really.

And when I'm being blunt, I understand logically that people could see it as rude for whatever reason.

But for me, it's just being like honest.

It's being the most efficient with my words.

Like I don't, what's the point in saying 10 words when you can say two and it mean the same thing.

But it jolts people.

I don't really know what else to say.

I don't mean it to be rude.