Richard Gadd

They'll just be the bad babies.

But I do want kids eventually.

You know, it has to be right.

And I think, you know, I have to be sort of settled and I have to probably come back to failure, you know, create a few boundaries with work and create a good environment there.

So, you know, there's work to do, you know, before that.

But so, yeah, I do really want kids one day.

Bear a grudge?

I think I've actually learned to get a lot better.

I remember once somebody saying to me, like, resentment is drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.

And I remember being like, oh God, that's so true.

You know, like I've definitely been in periods in my life where somebody's, you know, that phrase living around free inside your head where somebody has just been going round and round and round and round.

But I think I, I think a lot of it was down to sort of

can be down to sort of not being able to communicate sometimes properly.

And I've long learned that actually some of the best ways of getting rid of these kind of real long-term sort of stewing resentments is to actually cut it off at the pass and just say, look, like even the small thing, just say, look, can we just chat about that for a second?

I used to think that if you had sort of low-level people

you know, discussion about something that upsets you, that that person might hate you.

And so you better just keep it in and you can't come across like that.

But I actually think people respect it as well.

Like, I really think if you go about something in the right way, like it's not even conflict, it's discussion and it's healthy.

And so I've long learned to not stew on things and to bring things up if I feel it's necessary.