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Richard Taite

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We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

It's like, you can't formulate the thought, my parents are idiots. Because... your frontal cortex isn't developed. And not only that, but you're like, if these people don't love me, if they're the ones that have me, what am I supposed to do? I must be bad. You can't say anything other than because your frontal cortex isn't developed, I must be bad. And if you're bad, okay,

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

It's like, you can't formulate the thought, my parents are idiots. Because... your frontal cortex isn't developed. And not only that, but you're like, if these people don't love me, if they're the ones that have me, what am I supposed to do? I must be bad. You can't say anything other than because your frontal cortex isn't developed, I must be bad. And if you're bad, okay,

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

Every time you get disappointed, every time they hit you, every time they say, shut up, are you stupid? Or whatever they say, it reinforces itself. And pretty soon you're a 45 year old man You know, and your five-year-old self is running a 45-year-old man. And that's what I, but that doesn't make you a victim or for me, it doesn't make me a victim.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

Every time you get disappointed, every time they hit you, every time they say, shut up, are you stupid? Or whatever they say, it reinforces itself. And pretty soon you're a 45 year old man You know, and your five-year-old self is running a 45-year-old man. And that's what I, but that doesn't make you a victim or for me, it doesn't make me a victim.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

Every time you get disappointed, every time they hit you, every time they say, shut up, are you stupid? Or whatever they say, it reinforces itself. And pretty soon you're a 45 year old man You know, and your five-year-old self is running a 45-year-old man. And that's what I, but that doesn't make you a victim or for me, it doesn't make me a victim.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

And the reason it doesn't make me a victim is because I can say, okay, that's what happened Okay, I'm the adult now, I'm the parent now, and I'm not gonna be a victim. And the genius is that you figured that out and you stopped lying to yourself. And once you can get that, It works. But the thing about AA is it's always the same. And it's my foundation, man. I'm not sober today without AA.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

And the reason it doesn't make me a victim is because I can say, okay, that's what happened Okay, I'm the adult now, I'm the parent now, and I'm not gonna be a victim. And the genius is that you figured that out and you stopped lying to yourself. And once you can get that, It works. But the thing about AA is it's always the same. And it's my foundation, man. I'm not sober today without AA.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

And the reason it doesn't make me a victim is because I can say, okay, that's what happened Okay, I'm the adult now, I'm the parent now, and I'm not gonna be a victim. And the genius is that you figured that out and you stopped lying to yourself. And once you can get that, It works. But the thing about AA is it's always the same. And it's my foundation, man. I'm not sober today without AA.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

I'm not. Okay. I don't have kids. I'm not, you know, none of it. I mean, I've been given a life, right? But The problem sometimes with AA is they feel it's the only way. Everybody's an expert on their own sobriety. And they have to believe that way because their life is dependent on it. So I understand it.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

I'm not. Okay. I don't have kids. I'm not, you know, none of it. I mean, I've been given a life, right? But The problem sometimes with AA is they feel it's the only way. Everybody's an expert on their own sobriety. And they have to believe that way because their life is dependent on it. So I understand it.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

I'm not. Okay. I don't have kids. I'm not, you know, none of it. I mean, I've been given a life, right? But The problem sometimes with AA is they feel it's the only way. Everybody's an expert on their own sobriety. And they have to believe that way because their life is dependent on it. So I understand it.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

Dude, I was so, this is the household I was brought up in, and you'll be able to tell exactly why it turned out the way I did.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

Dude, I was so, this is the household I was brought up in, and you'll be able to tell exactly why it turned out the way I did.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

Dude, I was so, this is the household I was brought up in, and you'll be able to tell exactly why it turned out the way I did.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

Yeah, he just had to beat the shit out of his tweens. That's all.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

Yeah, he just had to beat the shit out of his tweens. That's all.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

Yeah, he just had to beat the shit out of his tweens. That's all.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

I must give you a lashing now. Oh my God, it was so bad. Where'd you grow up? In Encino, which is, again, scarring, right? Yeah. I can't even drive through the valley, man, without having anxiety. Yeah, it's the world's biggest consolation prize.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

I must give you a lashing now. Oh my God, it was so bad. Where'd you grow up? In Encino, which is, again, scarring, right? Yeah. I can't even drive through the valley, man, without having anxiety. Yeah, it's the world's biggest consolation prize.

We're Out of Time
Jay Mohr Overcoming Victim Mentality & Checking Ego in Addiction Recovery

I must give you a lashing now. Oh my God, it was so bad. Where'd you grow up? In Encino, which is, again, scarring, right? Yeah. I can't even drive through the valley, man, without having anxiety. Yeah, it's the world's biggest consolation prize.