Rick Glassman

We sit down and maybe a minute goes by and I just, I don't know what changed.

I just know the, I don't consciously recognize why it changed.

I just know, notice the energy changed.

And I asked if you're like, what happened?

And she said that I hurt her feelings.

And I immediately started like literally crying.

I don't just mean I felt bad.

I mean, tears were coming down my face.

At the moment, I didn't recognize it.

I soon thereafter did, but like, and I'm so sorry and I apologized.

When I realized the reason I was crying wasn't specifically because I hurt her feelings as much as I had no idea that I hurt her feelings.

I had no idea.

I'm an adult.

I'm dating this person.

I had no idea her feelings, which just made me feel bad about myself.

Sometimes things like that happen and I go back and think about how fucking clueless I was as a kid.

I have a bit that I say on stage now where I didn't have friends growing up, but I didn't know that until I turned 30.

I just thought everybody was busy all the time.

Like no, people just made excuses and stuff.

And like, and also the point, the reason I bring that up is because if I didn't say to her, hey, what just happened?