Rick Glassman

She might not have said you hurt my feelings.

So in the midst of things, if somebody says, hey, I don't like this,

I would be like, thank you for telling me.

But if you don't tell me that I'm going to keep punching, you know, I'm going to keep like doing what I think we're supposed to be doing.

So I like when people ask questions.

I like when people tell me how they feel.

I sometimes have given myself the responsibility to like ask numerous times how somebody feels like what you said, but I'm still not convinced I'm going to get the answer.

yeah i came into some self-awareness about eight years ago and i learned things about myself and i learned how much i'm missing stuff um for a couple of years thereafter i was very much that kind of like what you suggested i might be that's why i was curious why you said that is this okay am i should i not am i i'm sorry i'm sorry you know i'm like using my turning signal when it's a right turn only like i'm just always making sure i'm just joking you know i would say stuff like that and like

What I realized was before I was clueless about everyone was feeling and I thought I was I thought because I I grew up with very supportive parents and I believed them.

I don't know if they were right, but I'm the funniest.

I'm the most charming.

Everyone loves me.

And this wasn't the case at all.

And I was so much happier thinking everybody loved me than when I realized I'm just, I'm bothering people.

But now, you know, I graduated into knowing that I bother people.

So how do I control that?

And what I learned is I still couldn't, I still did all of the things I thought I was supposed to do and checking in.

And I didn't feel anything different other than lower self-worth.

That's not me saying that who cares what other people think.

I very much care what other people think.