Rick Glassman

It's making sure that they're okay with you.

And I think a great test of that would be, hey, I don't want to tell him that he has a booger in his nose.

That's not my job.

Maybe the person who does his makeup will.

And when the makeup person tells you, I'm not thinking like, oh no, I'm sorry.

I'm thinking, I'm glad they said it.

So it's not the information that you're receiving that's going to not please you.

It's I'm the one who's delivering it.

And again, there's tact to this.

Sometimes I don't owe everybody my truth.

I don't need to tell you everything.

I have found through

Originally a lack of awareness and then through making jokes that, oh, there are ways of maybe delivering things to where it's more palatable.

I don't know how you're going to receive this information.

I don't want to make my choice based on how you're going to receive it.

I want to make my choice based on do I think this is valuable information for this person?

And the only guiding star I have for that is would I want to know that?

If I would want to know that, but there goes again where I also want to, hey, I want to leave my hat here.

I think at a certain point with us being imperfect humans, there are just ways of calibrating yourself to like, you could only police so many things.

And that's where the acceptance is.