Rick

But we've done this so many times now.

Like it's really it's been a long road.

So.

And then the second thing was, I mean, of course, just like any couple that's been together more than a month or two, we have fights and we have arguments.

It happens, right?

You live with somebody for 18 years, eventually you're going to want to choke them.

And so she said, listen, if this is ever brought up and thrown in my face again,

You know, I'm done with it.

You know, not us, but this whole thing.

And I was like, look, you know, that'll never happen.

And it never has, you know.

And she's like, all right.

She said, well, I guess I'll bite the bullet and give you what you want.

if you're sure this is what you want i said i know it is so now i'm like i've got her right i've got i've been playing chess for three years it took a long time to get it done well let me just tell you you got to play the long game and that's the way to play it with the woman you know what i'm saying they're different than men so at that point i'm ready to go like are you ready to go now

you know, let's, let's get a car.

Let's find somebody.

Let's go.

You know, as a man, I was man, I was absolutely ready for it.

And so obviously it didn't happen right that second.

There was still kind of apprehension on her part.