Rob Dial

This is a heightened event.

I need to wire this into myself as soon as possible.

So what you have to understand is your inner critic that's been running the show for a long time, it's an outdated voice that's trying to protect you.

That's what it's doing is trying to protect you.

Affirmations rewire that default script.

Incantations, which are affirmations with power, try to actually get into your nervous system faster.

They teach your brain that safety can actually come from creating the life that you want, not just actually sitting back and protecting yourself.

And so you've got to start to speak to yourself differently.

The fourth thing

that you need to do to become more confident is fail.

Like, a lot.

For some reason, people think, I need to become confident in myself, because if I'm confident in myself, I won't fail.

And a lot of people try to avoid failure, because so many people are, one of the biggest fears is failure.

I would say the fear that I hear more than anything else from people is the fear of failure.

But it's impossible to create the life that you want to and not fail.

Like I have a successful business now, but I've had multiple failed businesses where I've gone, you know, lost money.

I have, you know, had to have them repo my car.

I had to have them not repossess it.

I had to call up, I was five months behind on my car payment because my business was so bad, right?

So success, as the creator of Honda says, is 99% failure.