Rob Dial

They're obsessed with proving why they can't change.

They're obsessed with their insecurities.

They're obsessed with their old story and fears.

They're obsessed with defending an identity that's keeping them stuck.

And so then when you say something like, I really do want a new life.

It's like, yeah, but do you?

Because I'm watching people fight harder for their limitations than fight for the life that they want.

Think about that for a second.

How many times have you over-explained yourself to somebody as to why you're not good enough, why you have fears, why you have limiting beliefs, why your trauma is holding you back, why your parents didn't give you what you want, why it's the president's fault or the economy's fault or another nation's fault or Nancy and accounting's fault.

It's always a fault of something versus being like, I don't give a shit.

I'm going to be obsessed with what I want.

I'm going to get it no matter what.

I see people unconsciously become lawyers for their fear.

Like they build a whole case.

A whole case.

Well, this is just how I am and I've always been anxious and I've never really been disciplined.

I'm not a disciplined person and I am bad with money and I'm just not the kind of person who follows through and I just self-sabotage and I'm also lazy and I'm like, damn.

you have an incredible amount of focus, like an incredible amount of focus, but you don't realize you're just aimed at the wrong thing.

Like you're aimed at who you used to be.

Like life is like this, at this moment right now, it's like from this moment back to the moment you were born is chapter one.