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Rob Dial

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

Maybe you've been conditioned to believe that success means money or success means titles or achievements or approval from certain people or becoming famous. But real success is living a life that feels deeply fulfilling to you. Regardless of the money in your bank account, regardless of all of the achievements, or what other people might define as success. So what makes you the happiest?

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

Maybe you've been conditioned to believe that success means money or success means titles or achievements or approval from certain people or becoming famous. But real success is living a life that feels deeply fulfilling to you. Regardless of the money in your bank account, regardless of all of the achievements, or what other people might define as success. So what makes you the happiest?

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

What makes you say, that would be a successful life for me? That's what you need to figure out. You might be a doctor right now and be worth a million dollars a year because that's what your parents told you to go do.

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

What makes you say, that would be a successful life for me? That's what you need to figure out. You might be a doctor right now and be worth a million dollars a year because that's what your parents told you to go do.

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

What makes you say, that would be a successful life for me? That's what you need to figure out. You might be a doctor right now and be worth a million dollars a year because that's what your parents told you to go do.

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

But you might just be the happiest living in a country, in a small house with your children and your spouse, working on a family farm, making enough money doing side jobs just to pay the bills and save a little, even though you went to school for years. You'd be better just spending the majority of your time raising your children into good humans. And that's what you want to do. Good. Go do that.

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

But you might just be the happiest living in a country, in a small house with your children and your spouse, working on a family farm, making enough money doing side jobs just to pay the bills and save a little, even though you went to school for years. You'd be better just spending the majority of your time raising your children into good humans. And that's what you want to do. Good. Go do that.

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

But you might just be the happiest living in a country, in a small house with your children and your spouse, working on a family farm, making enough money doing side jobs just to pay the bills and save a little, even though you went to school for years. You'd be better just spending the majority of your time raising your children into good humans. And that's what you want to do. Good. Go do that.

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

Let's say you're not a doctor. Let's say you're struggling to pay the rent. Okay, well, what do you need to do in order to, if that exact same life is what you want, in order to get a small family farm, whether it's something to rent or to save up enough money to buy it to eventually get there? What does success mean to you?

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

Let's say you're not a doctor. Let's say you're struggling to pay the rent. Okay, well, what do you need to do in order to, if that exact same life is what you want, in order to get a small family farm, whether it's something to rent or to save up enough money to buy it to eventually get there? What does success mean to you?

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

Let's say you're not a doctor. Let's say you're struggling to pay the rent. Okay, well, what do you need to do in order to, if that exact same life is what you want, in order to get a small family farm, whether it's something to rent or to save up enough money to buy it to eventually get there? What does success mean to you?

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

For some people, success would mean something completely different than living on a small family farm and raising little tiny humans. But without clarity, you just keep drifting and reacting to life instead of actually sitting down and designing it.

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

For some people, success would mean something completely different than living on a small family farm and raising little tiny humans. But without clarity, you just keep drifting and reacting to life instead of actually sitting down and designing it.

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

For some people, success would mean something completely different than living on a small family farm and raising little tiny humans. But without clarity, you just keep drifting and reacting to life instead of actually sitting down and designing it.

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

So you need to intentionally design every aspect of your life with clarity, not with vagueness, so that you know what you're shooting for and what you're working towards every single day. This is really the biggest first step and probably the most important. So you've got to ask yourself the right questions. What does my ideal day look like from start to finish?

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

So you need to intentionally design every aspect of your life with clarity, not with vagueness, so that you know what you're shooting for and what you're working towards every single day. This is really the biggest first step and probably the most important. So you've got to ask yourself the right questions. What does my ideal day look like from start to finish?

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

So you need to intentionally design every aspect of your life with clarity, not with vagueness, so that you know what you're shooting for and what you're working towards every single day. This is really the biggest first step and probably the most important. So you've got to ask yourself the right questions. What does my ideal day look like from start to finish?

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

How do I want to feel every morning when I wake up? What kind of work excites me? How do I want to spend my time? Who do I want to spend my time with? What kind of lifestyle would make me feel the most alive? What are things that matter most to me in my life? Whether it's freedom or creativity or family or impact or adventure, whatever it is for you. And so write it all down.

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

How do I want to feel every morning when I wake up? What kind of work excites me? How do I want to spend my time? Who do I want to spend my time with? What kind of lifestyle would make me feel the most alive? What are things that matter most to me in my life? Whether it's freedom or creativity or family or impact or adventure, whatever it is for you. And so write it all down.

The Mindset Mentor
5 Steps to Designing the Life You Want

How do I want to feel every morning when I wake up? What kind of work excites me? How do I want to spend my time? Who do I want to spend my time with? What kind of lifestyle would make me feel the most alive? What are things that matter most to me in my life? Whether it's freedom or creativity or family or impact or adventure, whatever it is for you. And so write it all down.