Rob Dial
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Because as you start to spend more time with yourself, you start to go, you know what? I was a little bit hard on you then. I know that you were doing your best. I know that I can be a little bit hard. I'm sorry. I love you. And you're starting to talk to yourself. So you're having more self-compassion. You're getting better at it.
Because as you start to spend more time with yourself, you start to go, you know what? I was a little bit hard on you then. I know that you were doing your best. I know that I can be a little bit hard. I'm sorry. I love you. And you're starting to talk to yourself. So you're having more self-compassion. You're getting better at it.
So instead of spiraling into negative thoughts and fears and worries, when you have kind of like a structured solitude, it helps you process your emotions healthily. So one of the biggest things that you can do to help yourself with this is to realize that you're gonna have some more time with yourself and you're gonna learn to enjoy your own company.
So instead of spiraling into negative thoughts and fears and worries, when you have kind of like a structured solitude, it helps you process your emotions healthily. So one of the biggest things that you can do to help yourself with this is to realize that you're gonna have some more time with yourself and you're gonna learn to enjoy your own company.
So instead of spiraling into negative thoughts and fears and worries, when you have kind of like a structured solitude, it helps you process your emotions healthily. So one of the biggest things that you can do to help yourself with this is to realize that you're gonna have some more time with yourself and you're gonna learn to enjoy your own company.
One of the biggest reasons why people feel lonely is because they feel like they don't know themself. They don't know what they're doing. They don't know what they're doing with their life. They feel like they're purposeless. You know, when you lack direction, solitude feels like this endless void because you're like, what the am I doing here?
One of the biggest reasons why people feel lonely is because they feel like they don't know themself. They don't know what they're doing. They don't know what they're doing with their life. They feel like they're purposeless. You know, when you lack direction, solitude feels like this endless void because you're like, what the am I doing here?
One of the biggest reasons why people feel lonely is because they feel like they don't know themself. They don't know what they're doing. They don't know what they're doing with their life. They feel like they're purposeless. You know, when you lack direction, solitude feels like this endless void because you're like, what the am I doing here?
So what if we shift the focus a little bit to, you know, instead of being alone, what if you were alone with purpose? Being alone and doing nothing is what we're shooting for. But for some of you guys, you're like, I don't know, that seems like it's too far off, Rob. I don't know if I can do that yet. So what if we took kind of a step in the right direction, right? What if you could try this out?
So what if we shift the focus a little bit to, you know, instead of being alone, what if you were alone with purpose? Being alone and doing nothing is what we're shooting for. But for some of you guys, you're like, I don't know, that seems like it's too far off, Rob. I don't know if I can do that yet. So what if we took kind of a step in the right direction, right? What if you could try this out?
So what if we shift the focus a little bit to, you know, instead of being alone, what if you were alone with purpose? Being alone and doing nothing is what we're shooting for. But for some of you guys, you're like, I don't know, that seems like it's too far off, Rob. I don't know if I can do that yet. So what if we took kind of a step in the right direction, right? What if you could try this out?
Pick something that's meaningful to you. Maybe it's a creative project. Maybe it's a book that you bought six months ago and you haven't even cracked open. You've been really wanting to read it. Maybe there's a skill that you've been wanting to learn in some sort of way.
Pick something that's meaningful to you. Maybe it's a creative project. Maybe it's a book that you bought six months ago and you haven't even cracked open. You've been really wanting to read it. Maybe there's a skill that you've been wanting to learn in some sort of way.
Pick something that's meaningful to you. Maybe it's a creative project. Maybe it's a book that you bought six months ago and you haven't even cracked open. You've been really wanting to read it. Maybe there's a skill that you've been wanting to learn in some sort of way.
So instead of going straight to just, oh my God, I'm gonna be alone with no external stimuli, that might be like cold turkey for a lot of you guys. It might be hard. A step in the right direction would be like dedicate your alone time to building rather than just staring at a wall. You know, just kind of take a step in the right direction.
So instead of going straight to just, oh my God, I'm gonna be alone with no external stimuli, that might be like cold turkey for a lot of you guys. It might be hard. A step in the right direction would be like dedicate your alone time to building rather than just staring at a wall. You know, just kind of take a step in the right direction.
So instead of going straight to just, oh my God, I'm gonna be alone with no external stimuli, that might be like cold turkey for a lot of you guys. It might be hard. A step in the right direction would be like dedicate your alone time to building rather than just staring at a wall. You know, just kind of take a step in the right direction.
Make your solitude kind of like a space for creation, not just contemplation. I do think that you should have quiet time of literally no external stimulation. I do believe in that.
Make your solitude kind of like a space for creation, not just contemplation. I do think that you should have quiet time of literally no external stimulation. I do believe in that.
Make your solitude kind of like a space for creation, not just contemplation. I do think that you should have quiet time of literally no external stimulation. I do believe in that.