Rob Dial

Because you're not distorting it with those glasses. You're able to see it more clearly. It's the same thing here. The more clearly that you can see, the better that you will shoot. The more clear that you can see, the better decisions that you will make in your life. So next time you make a decision, write down what you want to happen.

And then write down what you would do if you had zero attachment to the outcome. And then compare the two. Okay, this is what I want. And this right here is, you know, if I had zero attachment to it, what I think, you know, if I had zero attachment to it, this is what I would do. And then compare the two and see if there's a gap between them.

And then write down what you would do if you had zero attachment to the outcome. And then compare the two. Okay, this is what I want. And this right here is, you know, if I had zero attachment to it, what I think, you know, if I had zero attachment to it, this is what I would do. And then compare the two and see if there's a gap between them.

And then write down what you would do if you had zero attachment to the outcome. And then compare the two. Okay, this is what I want. And this right here is, you know, if I had zero attachment to it, what I think, you know, if I had zero attachment to it, this is what I would do. And then compare the two and see if there's a gap between them.

If there's a gap between them, that's where your judgment's probably clouded. The third thing that you need to understand is that your identity traps you into staying stuck as well. So most people don't think freely. We think through a lens of our own personal identity.

If there's a gap between them, that's where your judgment's probably clouded. The third thing that you need to understand is that your identity traps you into staying stuck as well. So most people don't think freely. We think through a lens of our own personal identity.

If there's a gap between them, that's where your judgment's probably clouded. The third thing that you need to understand is that your identity traps you into staying stuck as well. So most people don't think freely. We think through a lens of our own personal identity.

If you've been listening to this podcast for a long time, you know I am obsessed with the identity that we have of who we think we are. So if you define yourself as a hard worker, it might be easy for you to work hard, but it might be really hard for you to consider that there might be easier ways of doing things. You might refuse to consider an easier way.

If you've been listening to this podcast for a long time, you know I am obsessed with the identity that we have of who we think we are. So if you define yourself as a hard worker, it might be easy for you to work hard, but it might be really hard for you to consider that there might be easier ways of doing things. You might refuse to consider an easier way.

If you've been listening to this podcast for a long time, you know I am obsessed with the identity that we have of who we think we are. So if you define yourself as a hard worker, it might be easy for you to work hard, but it might be really hard for you to consider that there might be easier ways of doing things. You might refuse to consider an easier way.

You might be refusing smarter ways to get things done because you're tied to your worth being something that you struggle with. Oh, I struggle, I struggle, I work hard. And that's what makes you valuable to yourself. Or, you know, if you hold strongly to a political belief, you might defend it even when you're presented with clear contradictions. Many people in the world doing this right now.

You might be refusing smarter ways to get things done because you're tied to your worth being something that you struggle with. Oh, I struggle, I struggle, I work hard. And that's what makes you valuable to yourself. Or, you know, if you hold strongly to a political belief, you might defend it even when you're presented with clear contradictions. Many people in the world doing this right now.

You might be refusing smarter ways to get things done because you're tied to your worth being something that you struggle with. Oh, I struggle, I struggle, I work hard. And that's what makes you valuable to yourself. Or, you know, if you hold strongly to a political belief, you might defend it even when you're presented with clear contradictions. Many people in the world doing this right now.

Because changing your mind and admitting that you were wrong, or admitting that your friends group basically were wrong, would feel like betrayal. Because you identify with that political party. This is who I am. This is what I believe in. That's one of the most dangerous things that you can say. If you believe yourself as somebody who never quits,

Because changing your mind and admitting that you were wrong, or admitting that your friends group basically were wrong, would feel like betrayal. Because you identify with that political party. This is who I am. This is what I believe in. That's one of the most dangerous things that you can say. If you believe yourself as somebody who never quits,

Because changing your mind and admitting that you were wrong, or admitting that your friends group basically were wrong, would feel like betrayal. Because you identify with that political party. This is who I am. This is what I believe in. That's one of the most dangerous things that you can say. If you believe yourself as somebody who never quits,

You might hold on to things way too long, even when you should have let go of them a while ago. Because your ego hates change. Your ego likes to say, this is who I am, this is what I believe, and this is what I'm going to be forever. It would rather be wrong and consistent than correct and uncertain. Let me say that again for you to really understand.

You might hold on to things way too long, even when you should have let go of them a while ago. Because your ego hates change. Your ego likes to say, this is who I am, this is what I believe, and this is what I'm going to be forever. It would rather be wrong and consistent than correct and uncertain. Let me say that again for you to really understand.

You might hold on to things way too long, even when you should have let go of them a while ago. Because your ego hates change. Your ego likes to say, this is who I am, this is what I believe, and this is what I'm going to be forever. It would rather be wrong and consistent than correct and uncertain. Let me say that again for you to really understand.

Your ego would much rather for you to be wrong and consistent than correct and uncertain. If you never question who you are, you will never grow. If you want better judgment, you must learn to shed your identity when necessary. It doesn't mean that you become an empty shell that meditates all day long and has no beliefs. It means that you learn to loosely identify with things.