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Rob Dial

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
6048 total appearances

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The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

And I say this walking a very thin line because I do talk about if someone's very toxic to you, you should spend less time with them. But there is also the case of if you knew every single thing that somebody who is very difficult to deal with has been with, it would be easier to have compassion. The problem is, is that like, for instance, we only see the adult man who's an asshole.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

And I say this walking a very thin line because I do talk about if someone's very toxic to you, you should spend less time with them. But there is also the case of if you knew every single thing that somebody who is very difficult to deal with has been with, it would be easier to have compassion. The problem is, is that like, for instance, we only see the adult man who's an asshole.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

We don't see the six-year-old little boy who was verbally assaulted by his father every single day. You get that? Like, if we did, it would be way easier to have compassion for those people. And the line of work that I'm in, it's really hard just not to have compassion for everybody because I hear, I can have a conversation with somebody and they could seem like they're sweet and they're amazing.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

We don't see the six-year-old little boy who was verbally assaulted by his father every single day. You get that? Like, if we did, it would be way easier to have compassion for those people. And the line of work that I'm in, it's really hard just not to have compassion for everybody because I hear, I can have a conversation with somebody and they could seem like they're sweet and they're amazing.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

We don't see the six-year-old little boy who was verbally assaulted by his father every single day. You get that? Like, if we did, it would be way easier to have compassion for those people. And the line of work that I'm in, it's really hard just not to have compassion for everybody because I hear, I can have a conversation with somebody and they could seem like they're sweet and they're amazing.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

They've got it all together. And then they tell me about their past and I'm like, oh my God, I can't believe the hell that you've been through. And so they can sit in front of you and they can seem like they've got it all together. But then behind the scenes, you're like, I can't believe all that this person's been through. Almost all adults are are just wounded children and adult bodies.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

They've got it all together. And then they tell me about their past and I'm like, oh my God, I can't believe the hell that you've been through. And so they can sit in front of you and they can seem like they've got it all together. But then behind the scenes, you're like, I can't believe all that this person's been through. Almost all adults are are just wounded children and adult bodies.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

They've got it all together. And then they tell me about their past and I'm like, oh my God, I can't believe the hell that you've been through. And so they can sit in front of you and they can seem like they've got it all together. But then behind the scenes, you're like, I can't believe all that this person's been through. Almost all adults are are just wounded children and adult bodies.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

And I really want you to understand that. So when I say that everyone's doing the best that they can with what they have, I'm being fully honest with you. Like, I believe that with every cell of my body. And many factors can influence a person's behaviors and actions. I mean, think about the past few years. Like, a lot has happened the past few years for mankind since, I don't know, 2020.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

And I really want you to understand that. So when I say that everyone's doing the best that they can with what they have, I'm being fully honest with you. Like, I believe that with every cell of my body. And many factors can influence a person's behaviors and actions. I mean, think about the past few years. Like, a lot has happened the past few years for mankind since, I don't know, 2020.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

And I really want you to understand that. So when I say that everyone's doing the best that they can with what they have, I'm being fully honest with you. Like, I believe that with every cell of my body. And many factors can influence a person's behaviors and actions. I mean, think about the past few years. Like, a lot has happened the past few years for mankind since, I don't know, 2020.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

Mental health issues have skyrocketed. People have been through ups and downs and they've been beat up, you know. mentally and emotionally and all of that. And you might be sitting in front of somebody, you might be like, this person's a complete asshole. This person's a complete dick and this person's got that.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

Mental health issues have skyrocketed. People have been through ups and downs and they've been beat up, you know. mentally and emotionally and all of that. And you might be sitting in front of somebody, you might be like, this person's a complete asshole. This person's a complete dick and this person's got that.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

Mental health issues have skyrocketed. People have been through ups and downs and they've been beat up, you know. mentally and emotionally and all of that. And you might be sitting in front of somebody, you might be like, this person's a complete asshole. This person's a complete dick and this person's got that.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

But that person can be struggling with a mental health issue that you just really don't even know. Like they don't present it. It could be extreme anxiety, depression. It could be guilt from things that they've done in the past and they can't get over. All of these things can greatly affect somebody's behavior and their ability to make decisions and how they present as a person.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

But that person can be struggling with a mental health issue that you just really don't even know. Like they don't present it. It could be extreme anxiety, depression. It could be guilt from things that they've done in the past and they can't get over. All of these things can greatly affect somebody's behavior and their ability to make decisions and how they present as a person.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

But that person can be struggling with a mental health issue that you just really don't even know. Like they don't present it. It could be extreme anxiety, depression. It could be guilt from things that they've done in the past and they can't get over. All of these things can greatly affect somebody's behavior and their ability to make decisions and how they present as a person.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

They also might be dealing with personal problems as well. Like they could have financial difficulties. They could have relationship issues. Someone that they love could be really, really sick. Someone they love could, you know, have just died or they're about to be there. All of these things are all possibilities and people are just, so many people are just trying to keep it together.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

They also might be dealing with personal problems as well. Like they could have financial difficulties. They could have relationship issues. Someone that they love could be really, really sick. Someone they love could, you know, have just died or they're about to be there. All of these things are all possibilities and people are just, so many people are just trying to keep it together.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

They also might be dealing with personal problems as well. Like they could have financial difficulties. They could have relationship issues. Someone that they love could be really, really sick. Someone they love could, you know, have just died or they're about to be there. All of these things are all possibilities and people are just, so many people are just trying to keep it together.