Rob Henderson

And if they can shine a light on this show and get it to become a thing and help to contribute to this consensus, then, you know, they're, they're basically, it's not, it wasn't the original intent, but you know, it's a, it's a, it's a happy sort of by-product of the show being around and, being in a position to amplify its message and get people to watch it.

And if they can shine a light on this show and get it to become a thing and help to contribute to this consensus, then, you know, they're, they're basically, it's not, it wasn't the original intent, but you know, it's a, it's a, it's a happy sort of by-product of the show being around and, being in a position to amplify its message and get people to watch it.

And if they can shine a light on this show and get it to become a thing and help to contribute to this consensus, then, you know, they're, they're basically, it's not, it wasn't the original intent, but you know, it's a, it's a, it's a happy sort of by-product of the show being around and, being in a position to amplify its message and get people to watch it.

Yeah, well, one of the things that I point out right away in that piece, how to choose a romantic partner is, you know, study after study finds, you know, you look at research on happiness, on well-being, on life satisfaction, that the two biggest factors are what you do for work and your your marriage and family life, you know, your choice of spouse. And that makes sense.

Yeah, well, one of the things that I point out right away in that piece, how to choose a romantic partner is, you know, study after study finds, you know, you look at research on happiness, on well-being, on life satisfaction, that the two biggest factors are what you do for work and your your marriage and family life, you know, your choice of spouse. And that makes sense.

Yeah, well, one of the things that I point out right away in that piece, how to choose a romantic partner is, you know, study after study finds, you know, you look at research on happiness, on well-being, on life satisfaction, that the two biggest factors are what you do for work and your your marriage and family life, you know, your choice of spouse. And that makes sense.

I mean, if nothing else, mathematically, it makes sense because you're going to spend most of your life on the job, whatever job you work, your career and then with your family. And that takes up the bulk of your time.

I mean, if nothing else, mathematically, it makes sense because you're going to spend most of your life on the job, whatever job you work, your career and then with your family. And that takes up the bulk of your time.

I mean, if nothing else, mathematically, it makes sense because you're going to spend most of your life on the job, whatever job you work, your career and then with your family. And that takes up the bulk of your time.

And so one thing that occurred to me as I was writing that piece is just how much information there is out there about, you know, how to become educationally and occupationally successful. Here are the steps you need to go to college. Here are the steps you need to take to master a job interview. You know, here's the pathway to become a successful doctor, lawyer, what have you.

And so one thing that occurred to me as I was writing that piece is just how much information there is out there about, you know, how to become educationally and occupationally successful. Here are the steps you need to go to college. Here are the steps you need to take to master a job interview. You know, here's the pathway to become a successful doctor, lawyer, what have you.

And so one thing that occurred to me as I was writing that piece is just how much information there is out there about, you know, how to become educationally and occupationally successful. Here are the steps you need to go to college. Here are the steps you need to take to master a job interview. You know, here's the pathway to become a successful doctor, lawyer, what have you.

And everywhere you turn, there's no shortage of advice. And it's perfectly kind of acceptable in the broader discourse to, you know, like, what are you doing? Oh, I'm watching this YouTube series on how to how to improve my career. That's fine. But if you were to say, you know, you're watching it and I'm saying, what are you watching?

And everywhere you turn, there's no shortage of advice. And it's perfectly kind of acceptable in the broader discourse to, you know, like, what are you doing? Oh, I'm watching this YouTube series on how to how to improve my career. That's fine. But if you were to say, you know, you're watching it and I'm saying, what are you watching?

And everywhere you turn, there's no shortage of advice. And it's perfectly kind of acceptable in the broader discourse to, you know, like, what are you doing? Oh, I'm watching this YouTube series on how to how to improve my career. That's fine. But if you were to say, you know, you're watching it and I'm saying, what are you watching?

You're like, oh, I'm watching this YouTube series on how to be a better romantic partner and attract someone. Somehow that is like, you know, weirdly stigmatized. We would think of someone like that is like, well, what's wrong with you that you can't just find one? We expect people to just enter the world knowing how to be an attractive partner and to find a compatible partner for yourself.

You're like, oh, I'm watching this YouTube series on how to be a better romantic partner and attract someone. Somehow that is like, you know, weirdly stigmatized. We would think of someone like that is like, well, what's wrong with you that you can't just find one? We expect people to just enter the world knowing how to be an attractive partner and to find a compatible partner for yourself.

You're like, oh, I'm watching this YouTube series on how to be a better romantic partner and attract someone. Somehow that is like, you know, weirdly stigmatized. We would think of someone like that is like, well, what's wrong with you that you can't just find one? We expect people to just enter the world knowing how to be an attractive partner and to find a compatible partner for yourself.

But we accept that actually it's perfectly fine to sort of seek out information and knowledge and mentors and so on to succeed in career. Why do you think that is? I don't know. I mean, I think part of it is...

But we accept that actually it's perfectly fine to sort of seek out information and knowledge and mentors and so on to succeed in career. Why do you think that is? I don't know. I mean, I think part of it is...