Rob Henderson

But we accept that actually it's perfectly fine to sort of seek out information and knowledge and mentors and so on to succeed in career. Why do you think that is? I don't know. I mean, I think part of it is...

there could be this thing where if you are, if you require explicit advice on romance, that this in itself is an indicator of low mate value or that you're unattractive, that if you naturally know what to do and naturally know how to succeed as a person in the romantic sort of dating market, then that in itself is an indicator that you're a worthy romantic partner.

there could be this thing where if you are, if you require explicit advice on romance, that this in itself is an indicator of low mate value or that you're unattractive, that if you naturally know what to do and naturally know how to succeed as a person in the romantic sort of dating market, then that in itself is an indicator that you're a worthy romantic partner.

there could be this thing where if you are, if you require explicit advice on romance, that this in itself is an indicator of low mate value or that you're unattractive, that if you naturally know what to do and naturally know how to succeed as a person in the romantic sort of dating market, then that in itself is an indicator that you're a worthy romantic partner.

But if you need to seek out information and that suggests, oh, actually, like maybe you shouldn't even be dating in the first place. Whereas, yeah, for career less so. I mean, I still think that we if someone effortlessly succeeds like in in in their career, we do give them a bit of extra credit, but we're perfectly fine with, you know,

But if you need to seek out information and that suggests, oh, actually, like maybe you shouldn't even be dating in the first place. Whereas, yeah, for career less so. I mean, I still think that we if someone effortlessly succeeds like in in in their career, we do give them a bit of extra credit, but we're perfectly fine with, you know,

But if you need to seek out information and that suggests, oh, actually, like maybe you shouldn't even be dating in the first place. Whereas, yeah, for career less so. I mean, I still think that we if someone effortlessly succeeds like in in in their career, we do give them a bit of extra credit, but we're perfectly fine with, you know,

People who are trying to improve themselves, we are willing to confer special praise to those people too. So yeah, it's an interesting one. And I think it's more so for men specifically. I also wonder if...

People who are trying to improve themselves, we are willing to confer special praise to those people too. So yeah, it's an interesting one. And I think it's more so for men specifically. I also wonder if...

People who are trying to improve themselves, we are willing to confer special praise to those people too. So yeah, it's an interesting one. And I think it's more so for men specifically. I also wonder if...

because of the women are wonderful effect and the sort of accompanying effect of we tend to be a bit more suspicious of men, that if you hear that a man is learning how to improve their prospects on the dating market, our mind immediately leads to worst case scenario of, oh, you're going to learn how to manipulate women. You're going to learn how to- Harry Sisson all over again.

because of the women are wonderful effect and the sort of accompanying effect of we tend to be a bit more suspicious of men, that if you hear that a man is learning how to improve their prospects on the dating market, our mind immediately leads to worst case scenario of, oh, you're going to learn how to manipulate women. You're going to learn how to- Harry Sisson all over again.

because of the women are wonderful effect and the sort of accompanying effect of we tend to be a bit more suspicious of men, that if you hear that a man is learning how to improve their prospects on the dating market, our mind immediately leads to worst case scenario of, oh, you're going to learn how to manipulate women. You're going to learn how to- Harry Sisson all over again.

Yeah, yeah, exactly. And so we don't think, oh, this is just a guy who's really falling behind and wants to learn how to have a good first date and find a girlfriend. We think, oh, he's trying to hook up with as many women as possible and dupe all of them or something.

Yeah, yeah, exactly. And so we don't think, oh, this is just a guy who's really falling behind and wants to learn how to have a good first date and find a girlfriend. We think, oh, he's trying to hook up with as many women as possible and dupe all of them or something.

Yeah, yeah, exactly. And so we don't think, oh, this is just a guy who's really falling behind and wants to learn how to have a good first date and find a girlfriend. We think, oh, he's trying to hook up with as many women as possible and dupe all of them or something.

But this piece was, you know, basically about, you know, assuming that you want to find a good partner, you know, what are you actually looking for? And earlier we talked about, we touched briefly on assortative mating, and that does seem to be the case that if you look at measures of political orientation or

But this piece was, you know, basically about, you know, assuming that you want to find a good partner, you know, what are you actually looking for? And earlier we talked about, we touched briefly on assortative mating, and that does seem to be the case that if you look at measures of political orientation or

But this piece was, you know, basically about, you know, assuming that you want to find a good partner, you know, what are you actually looking for? And earlier we talked about, we touched briefly on assortative mating, and that does seem to be the case that if you look at measures of political orientation or

religiosity, socioeconomic status, earnings, educational attainment, that we tend to pair with people who are relatively similar to ourselves. There was an interesting statistic. So this study was from 2005, which found that if your highest level of education is a high school diploma, then your likelihood of marrying someone with a college degree is 9%.