Robby Hoffman

So we pulled back.

But she was also not trusting.

Like in the beginning, like Gabby, you know, and in a healthy relationship or good relationship, ideally you work through your stuff with the person.

Like you realize why you are the way you are and you don't, you know what I mean?

And it all comes out.

So she was having that experience of like, you know, I guess I didn't trust that, you know, one of her parents would be home when they should be home or they said something to her and it didn't happen.

You know, she wasn't able to trust it.

But as we committed more and more, she always felt,

Like, even though it felt fat, like she actually enjoyed the commitment.

Like when we became, when we moved in, she was like, oh my God, I really trust that you love me.

Like, I really feel better.

Like every step that we did to more commitment, which would seem that she was like a pulling back.

But actually when, and I never, when she was like, okay, yeah, let's move.

Like when she, I would never push or whatever.

She would then feel 10 times closer.

When we got married, she even said, she's like, I really trust that you love me.

Like, it's just about, it's just about, we're all coming from our spaces.

And in the beginning,

She was sometimes afraid to say a feeling that she had because if she spoke up as a child sometimes and, you know, one day when she, you know, if you, you know, if you want her on as she's leaving the house or you catch her at the right time, she could speak more to this.

I hate to share her stuff, but she.