Robert

I'm good. How are you, Dave and Rachel?

I'm good. How are you, Dave and Rachel?

I'm good. How are you, Dave and Rachel?

Thanks for taking my call. I found you guys in 2020, and after paying off all my debt, I'm now on baby step six. I've been dating the same woman for four and a half years. She's absolutely amazing. I lover to death. Um, the one thing we struggle with is money and we pretty much see it kind of opposite.

Thanks for taking my call. I found you guys in 2020, and after paying off all my debt, I'm now on baby step six. I've been dating the same woman for four and a half years. She's absolutely amazing. I lover to death. Um, the one thing we struggle with is money and we pretty much see it kind of opposite.

Thanks for taking my call. I found you guys in 2020, and after paying off all my debt, I'm now on baby step six. I've been dating the same woman for four and a half years. She's absolutely amazing. I lover to death. Um, the one thing we struggle with is money and we pretty much see it kind of opposite.

Um, we're getting to a point in our relationship where, you know, we're, we're heavily discussing marriage and what all that looks like. And we're, we're kind of in a spot where, um, you know, I try to help her as much as possible and as much as she wants me to, I guess. to set up budgets and stuff like that. And it just never works out.

Um, we're getting to a point in our relationship where, you know, we're, we're heavily discussing marriage and what all that looks like. And we're, we're kind of in a spot where, um, you know, I try to help her as much as possible and as much as she wants me to, I guess. to set up budgets and stuff like that. And it just never works out.

Um, we're getting to a point in our relationship where, you know, we're, we're heavily discussing marriage and what all that looks like. And we're, we're kind of in a spot where, um, you know, I try to help her as much as possible and as much as she wants me to, I guess. to set up budgets and stuff like that. And it just never works out.

Um, you know, she, she always goes way over budget or whatever. And, um, if we were to get married, like she, you know, she would sell her house and move in with me and, and, uh, profits from that would pay off all of her debts. She has about 65,000 in debts. Um, so, so it's not really like a concern from that aspect. It's more just

Um, you know, she, she always goes way over budget or whatever. And, um, if we were to get married, like she, you know, she would sell her house and move in with me and, and, uh, profits from that would pay off all of her debts. She has about 65,000 in debts. Um, so, so it's not really like a concern from that aspect. It's more just

Um, you know, she, she always goes way over budget or whatever. And, um, if we were to get married, like she, you know, she would sell her house and move in with me and, and, uh, profits from that would pay off all of her debts. She has about 65,000 in debts. Um, so, so it's not really like a concern from that aspect. It's more just

Um, I guess I'm scared to move forward with someone that I've never seen can stay within a budget. Um, you know, and, and I'm worried that. It's the number one reason people get a divorce. I'm worried about becoming a statistic because we fight about money all the time.

Um, I guess I'm scared to move forward with someone that I've never seen can stay within a budget. Um, you know, and, and I'm worried that. It's the number one reason people get a divorce. I'm worried about becoming a statistic because we fight about money all the time.

Um, I guess I'm scared to move forward with someone that I've never seen can stay within a budget. Um, you know, and, and I'm worried that. It's the number one reason people get a divorce. I'm worried about becoming a statistic because we fight about money all the time.

Yeah, she just spends more than she makes. I mean, she brings in more money than I do, honestly. What does she spend it on?

Yeah, she just spends more than she makes. I mean, she brings in more money than I do, honestly. What does she spend it on?

Yeah, she just spends more than she makes. I mean, she brings in more money than I do, honestly. What does she spend it on?

Yeah, so in her every dollar, she's got a food category that's supposed to be $600. Last month, she spent $1,100. And then her shopping, it's supposed to be, I think, $400, and that includes even unnecessary fund purchases that everyone has to have. But instead, she spent like $900. Um, you know, she wants to, she's a mom of two. She wants to get a mommy makeover.

Yeah, so in her every dollar, she's got a food category that's supposed to be $600. Last month, she spent $1,100. And then her shopping, it's supposed to be, I think, $400, and that includes even unnecessary fund purchases that everyone has to have. But instead, she spent like $900. Um, you know, she wants to, she's a mom of two. She wants to get a mommy makeover.