Ronnie
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So that was my big thing.
So we ended up, I said, okay, let's do this.
And I worked with a lady.
who I was friendly with, and I floated that option with her and she was quite keen.
At that time, however, my husband didn't quite understand the difference between lust and love.
So he sort of got in contact with this lady
texted her it became very full on and I said to him at one stage hey listen sweet pea you need to stop this is about like sex not about feelings and I don't think he quite understood at that point and
And then it was sort of like, then I, every day and I'm like, so I actually took that option off the table and I said to him, I'm sorry, but that option's off the table.
Still happy to do the threesome, but that option is off the table because you're getting too close.
meaning this particular lady, not the actual threesome, just her.
I said, well, I'm happy to still go ahead with that.
But he felt like I dangled a carrot and I ripped that carrot out from underneath him.
And needless to say, we ended up splitting up for 18 months and he tried his hand and worked out that that wasn't
Quite the case.
I remember the pivotal moment where he realized he'd lost me.
He came around one day because he wanted to get me back.
He was still with this other lady.
And I turned around and I said, listen, it's over.
We're done.
Goodbye.