Rose

Like that shift has already sailed.

Like he was the person that helped me process how my previous relationship ended mainly because I felt like he had the... It was nice coming from like a guy's perspective and having like a really emotionally like mature person kind of validate like, hey, I'm not asking for too much from my ex.

Like this...

He's not fully moving in until months later.

So he's just coming to like visit me and see me.

No, no, but my city, my city, yeah, from another state, so.

He wanted to see me because it's been, like, about a year since we've seen each other, and it just happened to be a coincidence because there's President's Day after, so he had the day to take on Monday.

But also, I'm sure he does want to spend Valentine's Day with me.

I don't know, he probably planned something.

excited and scared because i feel like i just spent the holidays with my ex and then this really sweet wonderful man is coming and i just i'm not even sure if i like fully like like him that much and i know he's in on me yeah there's just a lot going on sure well that excited excited and scared feeling that you're feeling is normal but also probably speaks to that toxic side that you

I mean, not really.

Cause I don't know how to explain to a guy that really likes me that I'm not sure if I really like him.

It's like a weird conversation I have that I, I know I could have it.

Like I know that he could take those emotions, but I just don't know how to like word that.

Do I say that I want to spend Valentine's Day as friends or that he means a lot to me, but I'd want to maybe see how we're more so in person before we kind of take that next step?

Something like that.

Yeah, he keeps bringing up my ex a lot, which you were right when you said maybe don't talk to a new potential partner about your past relationships because he does bring that up.

Oh, and like what?

I don't even want to think about that.

Like asking me some questions, like if we're flirting, he'd be like, oh, did he do that?