Rose

Um,

Sorry, I'm bouncing my six month old at the same time.

I have a passive sexual trauma from my last romantic relationship four years ago.

My husband is aware of the extent of my trauma and has been patient with my sexual boundaries our whole relationship.

We have been married for a year and a half and together for two and a half and have an amazing six month old baby girl.

My husband has struggled with porn and lustful desires since he was 11 and wants healing.

How do I heal from this deep betrayal and love him through it?

I know it wasn't my fault and that I am enough, but how do I support him through sexual freedom while not minimizing my pain?

And how do I prepare to see my sisters in person after this came to light?

Yeah, so it's been...

like two and a half weeks since he told me.

And I have known that he has struggled with porn prior to us meeting and a few times during our marriage.

But he's been great the last couple months.

So everything that he's told me in the last couple weeks has happened prior to us having our baby.

And I saw a shift in him after that, just in leading our home and

Spiritual leading as well.

But I just, I told him like two and a half weeks ago, we were going to buy a new car.

And I was like, you don't seem to be walking a life of contentment.

And there feels like there's distance and you're always seeking more.

And I was like, I can tell that there's something.