Rox Pink
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
It's this judgment that it's controlling for someone to, we all need to leave at this time.
I need to know the plans.
And I have in the past seen that as controlling.
Yeah.
Oh, well.
Here you go.
You like direct communication.
Here it is.
Example, at the airport, we arrive at the airport.
I want to get a coffee.
No, we cannot.
It's not on the plan.
Like it would really freak you out.
I've definitely had moments when I'm like,
I want a coffee that we're in an airport.
It's over there.
Like I feel in that moment, I have felt controlled.
I can't do something simple because I've deviated from your mind plan that you haven't told me.
So it's so easy for the person next to you to feel that way, like as if they can't have freedom to do what they want or to be more flexible with the plan.
What I understand now is that it was never about controlling me.