Rox Pink
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It was controlling your immediate environment to stop anxiety and to provide safety.
So you having a detailed time plan and itinerary is so you can feel okay.
I think we may have just solved and,
Big problem in neurodivergent relationships.
Plan in the vibe type.
The problem is if you've got an ADHD partner...
I'm not necessarily a big one for planning.
Part of my vibe time is the fact that it like, do I want to go and smell some scents?
Do I want to go in the bookshop and smell some books?
Do I want a coffee?
Like I like to have flexibility.
I don't know if I'd like, it's like 9.20, you've now got 20 minutes of vibe time.
I don't know if I'd like those constraints.
Fine.
That is now starting to sound a bit controlling, but maybe some people need to be.
And you've written some notes for how you want it to go.
And then I've got an idea as well.
Some notes like, how about we try this or we talk about this.
You can, I'm being really careful with my words.
Yeah.