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Ruby Hall

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

Yeah, totally.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

And so like if you have the claim of like, oh, you can't say anything anymore.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

Everyone's just going to get mad at you.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

It's like you're kind of implying that they're not allowed to say what they're saying to you.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

That's also them exercising their freedom of speech to say I didn't like that and that's okay.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

And if that's offensive to you, you can't get mad because your whole thing is you should be able to say anything.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

Yes.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

So it kind of becomes a little bit of like a paradox when comedians get mad at people for –

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

for fighting back against their jokes because you go, well, that's them also doing the thing that you say we should all be allowed to do.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

Yeah, it kind of reached a point where I thought that a lot of my behaviors were just stress induced.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

And I thought that when I made mistakes or when I missed things or when I was just like disorganized in my life, it was like it was just because I have a lot going on.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

And that's true.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

That is true to an extent.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

But what I realize is that stress is one of those things that just exacerbates ADHD symptoms.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

So I had worked out all these coping mechanisms to, like, deal with structures in my life that were difficult when things weren't hard.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

But when they got hard, I felt like I really copped it.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

And so it just kind of – my partner has ADHD as well.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

And, I mean, the real story is, which is probably not the fun – well, not even the fun story, but, like, I basically just tried his five ants and went –

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

oh, I feel like I can do things.

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Melanie Bracewell: 'My fiancé's memory loss stole our first dates'

And it was just like an eye-opening moment and being medicated for it.