Ruth

Good.

How are you?

My name is Ruth.

And I am 36.

Okay.

I'm getting married in November and my ex reached out to me like a month after I got engaged.

And it wasn't like the nicest message.

And I don't know if I should tell my fiance before we get married or if I should just bury it, let it be, never think of it.

So background story.

I dated my now fiance back in college for like about a year on and off.

And then I ghosted him.

And then when I was 22, I met my ex of 12 years.

And the last month that my ex and I were together.

my now fiance and i had reconnected and we were kind of just friends like there was nothing there and then he kind of like went through the breakup with me like saw me go through all the things and kind of like was my friend through it and then like he hated him just because of all the stuff that he had heard and all the fights that he had heard and seen your now fiance didn't care for your ex hates okay

Yeah.

Well, yeah.

And he is blocked on everything or so I thought until an email slipped through.

The email just said, like, I heard you're getting married.

I hope it's everything I couldn't give you.

Dot, dot, dot.