Ryan Shelton

Beautiful.

Yes.

Yeah.

I just, I find it really emotional to read that because when I lie in bed at night, often,

I'm getting better at this.

This is something I'm working really hard on and I'm going to see a psychologist to work on it, to help work on it.

But I lie in bed and I'm just full of regrets about losing my cool or the look on my child's face when I've unnecessarily said no to something when I could have, as she said, just sort of gone with yes and embraced a bit of discomfort.

But for some reason I've let stress and anger or a need to get out the door quickly for some reason, like I have to be, like it's going to be the end of the world if the kids aren't at kinder by 8.30 and I'm here by nine on the dot, like I'm never here on nine on the dot anyway.

This fear of like, I can't let that happen.

So I lose it at my child to put their pants on or whatever it is, as opposed to just going with it a little bit more and slowing down and just giving them what they need.

I'll lie in bed and think like, how did you turn into this person?

Like where did this – you used to – there are elements of you and especially the way she talks about the – in her case, like the girl she used to be but the child we all were.

I just envy that freedom and carefree approach to life that I could do with a lot more of.

Yeah.

You know that, I don't know if the lyric quite works, but you know that Paul Simon, a good day hasn't got no rain, a bad day's where I lie and think of things that could have been.

Yes.

I think like that now when I get in, not exactly that, but when I get into bed, if I can lie there and think I wasn't,

Like I didn't lose it today or I didn't, I don't regret it.

That's a good day.

That's a really good day.