Ryan Soave
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
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What is it?
Big picture, what is addiction?
I think people can inherently know, but what are some of the guidelines?
Do I like myself when I do this?
Yeah.
And what are my big life goals?
And is it helping those or hurting those?
I mean, we've kind of been focusing on substances up till now, but you today mostly work with people who are not addicted to substances.
And so what does that look like and how does it play out?
What is it the solution for?
How do those behaviors play out?
It's a signal that you did something wrong.
It's very useful.
I mean, there's a reason that we have bad feelings.
They typically, you know, there's an evolutionary context there.
It's like shame is useful because it tells the individual
Yeah.
It's like to use your example of someone who fears men.
If all the men around you were harmful, if you didn't have a response to that that was like, I should probably avoid that, be vigilant, that wouldn't help you at all.
That would be very strange.