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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

But what I also know is that on the other side of it, there are 20,000 million more people that are resonating and feel it and love it. And the reason I bring that up is because you might go on a date and that woman might reject you. She's not your fucking person. Anybody that is going to reject you, right? What does rejection mean? Being ridiculed for who you are.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

Well, let me ask you on a first date, how the fuck are you being ridiculed for who you are when this person's known you for 20 minutes? And maybe they're emotionally unavailable. Maybe they're. And what we see often is when we start to internalize that, that's our core belief. I would start to look and say, how familiar does that other person feel?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

Well, let me ask you on a first date, how the fuck are you being ridiculed for who you are when this person's known you for 20 minutes? And maybe they're emotionally unavailable. Maybe they're. And what we see often is when we start to internalize that, that's our core belief. I would start to look and say, how familiar does that other person feel?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

Well, let me ask you on a first date, how the fuck are you being ridiculed for who you are when this person's known you for 20 minutes? And maybe they're emotionally unavailable. Maybe they're. And what we see often is when we start to internalize that, that's our core belief. I would start to look and say, how familiar does that other person feel?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

If you feel rejected by them because, well, they were dismissive of me. Does that remind me of my parents? Because that feels familiar. Our brain loves to hold on to what ifs because anxiety is safer than uncertainty because it knows how to protect us from that.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

If you feel rejected by them because, well, they were dismissive of me. Does that remind me of my parents? Because that feels familiar. Our brain loves to hold on to what ifs because anxiety is safer than uncertainty because it knows how to protect us from that.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

If you feel rejected by them because, well, they were dismissive of me. Does that remind me of my parents? Because that feels familiar. Our brain loves to hold on to what ifs because anxiety is safer than uncertainty because it knows how to protect us from that.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And honestly, if somebody was like, I'm going for a Helmsworth, I'd be like, hey, me too. Great call. Have fun. Enjoy. Get me one too.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And honestly, if somebody was like, I'm going for a Helmsworth, I'd be like, hey, me too. Great call. Have fun. Enjoy. Get me one too.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And honestly, if somebody was like, I'm going for a Helmsworth, I'd be like, hey, me too. Great call. Have fun. Enjoy. Get me one too.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

Exactly. And it's so funny because I hear, I actually love having the male aspect here because I have actually a lot of male clients that I work with individually, but my audience is 70% female. So I'm very inundated in what women are going through. And it's so funny because I hear this every single day from women of like, men are the ones in control. Men are the one in power.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

Exactly. And it's so funny because I hear, I actually love having the male aspect here because I have actually a lot of male clients that I work with individually, but my audience is 70% female. So I'm very inundated in what women are going through. And it's so funny because I hear this every single day from women of like, men are the ones in control. Men are the one in power.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

Exactly. And it's so funny because I hear, I actually love having the male aspect here because I have actually a lot of male clients that I work with individually, but my audience is 70% female. So I'm very inundated in what women are going through. And it's so funny because I hear this every single day from women of like, men are the ones in control. Men are the one in power.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

Men are the one who get to make a decision. I feel like no guys like me. And honestly, what I see more often than not is like, we just keep going for the opposite of what we're not receiving, right? So for a lot of the women that keep going for these emotionally unavailable men, the one that are discrediting him, listen, of course we all want the 1%.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

Men are the one who get to make a decision. I feel like no guys like me. And honestly, what I see more often than not is like, we just keep going for the opposite of what we're not receiving, right? So for a lot of the women that keep going for these emotionally unavailable men, the one that are discrediting him, listen, of course we all want the 1%.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

Men are the one who get to make a decision. I feel like no guys like me. And honestly, what I see more often than not is like, we just keep going for the opposite of what we're not receiving, right? So for a lot of the women that keep going for these emotionally unavailable men, the one that are discrediting him, listen, of course we all want the 1%.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

We all want the 6'5", tall, blue-eyed finance, right? Like every girl wants a Helmsworth. But then we also have to look and go, well, who am I, right? Like, who am I to show up and say, oh, I deserve all of these things. Same with men. It's anybody, right? You got to kind of understand what's realistic in life. But to all the guys out there, I could tell you this right now.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

We all want the 6'5", tall, blue-eyed finance, right? Like every girl wants a Helmsworth. But then we also have to look and go, well, who am I, right? Like, who am I to show up and say, oh, I deserve all of these things. Same with men. It's anybody, right? You got to kind of understand what's realistic in life. But to all the guys out there, I could tell you this right now.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

We all want the 6'5", tall, blue-eyed finance, right? Like every girl wants a Helmsworth. But then we also have to look and go, well, who am I, right? Like, who am I to show up and say, oh, I deserve all of these things. Same with men. It's anybody, right? You got to kind of understand what's realistic in life. But to all the guys out there, I could tell you this right now.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

Women have no idea what the fuck they're doing either. I can tell you that with certainty. Women are equally as anxious, equally as unsure, equally as insecure. And if you're going after the women that are avoidant or being dismissive or pushing you away or shutting down, please stop internalizing as that's you because I'm here to let you know that is not about you. That's their bullshit.